Parenting Tips for Win Fights on both sides make lots

Parenting Tips for Win Fights on both sides make lots It always retus to power struggles with our youth. Even if we win, it feels like we all lose. What can we do, without the prior definition different? R. This is a good and often asked question. He is right on target when you say that it feels like everyone loses, even if "winning". Most of the power struggles between parents and adolescents are a loose / lose proposition.Remember commercial a few years ago, the two rams BUTTING heads repeatedly on the top of a mountain? The slogan reads: "Dodge RAM trucks is hard!" Even when a ho blows with head, there's always very sad to me.I believe that is the same way when parents and adolescents and parents butt heads.When teenagers butt headsSo where in the world, we have the idea that the parent - teen relationship is a struggle in which a party is to win and lose on the other side? One of the greatest sources of power struggles is convinced not only that each side has to win every battle, who have to battle on every topic that arises.The parents bought in the mistaken assumption that always "win" in order to be a good parents.In passion, exuberance, and "wisdom" of youth, the teen feels that every struggle is a struggle for independence, which must be won at all costs.Visit for tips and tools for thriving during the teen years. For regular weekly tips you can sign up for our F-ree Parenting Your Youth Newsletter. You can also subscribe to our f * r * e * e 5-day e-program on The Top 5 Things to Never Say to your parents of teenagers and experienced coach Jeff Herring.