My child is Lazy

My child is Lazy There is a difference between lazy and unmotivated? Why do some children move as if in slow motion? E 'is normal or just to irritate you? You will be surprised to lea that many factors come into play when the child appears to be lazy, stage of growth, hormones, hunger, motivation, lack of clear guidelines and May also be sleep deprivation.I have never taught my laboratory? Children, work and more? when? There is at least two parents of children 11 years regretting the fact that their son is so lazy. In reality, they are not lazy. Are more and more. It takes a lot of energy for young children to develop the muscles, bones and so n? T are much more left to run the vacuum or garbage.FOOD AND THE GREAT DIFFERNCE.I also found with our son at this age, what I consider a 'problem has been solved so he had plenty of food and a rest suitable. It is becoming more and more as quickly as it was a little 'more calories than just doing the day that had months before. It 'been a real revelation for us, who needs 3,000 calories a day and ten hours sleep.MAKE realistic expectations of CHILDWhile two children and their families are identical, one of the studies and reports of thousands of children were normal you can look ages and stages of child growth. While doing research on the motivation of children to help at home, it is obvious that parents were frustrated by the lack of will in the field and do their share of my books maintenance.In families and working groups stressed the importance of assessing the physical, mental and emotional in every age group. Perhaps the task is too difficult or too easy. Whether your child is overwhelmed by the assignment or even undisputed. Curiously, children as a project, you can succeed, but allows them some creativity. So instead of only the allocation of small dishes to be unloaded, as called for the antenna to be cleaned and wardrobes rearranged.ALLOW ITS THE PROBLEMParents often complain that children do their homework, but what we really feel is not done the right way? that is their way. When the child knows that parents are complaining, criticizing or redo the work, it is easier to not start. Although it is not necessary or fair to acknowledge the work that is poor, it is not our task to do or to criticize the worker. If the work really belongs to the child, then you can do in their way.In any new activity, which lasts approximately five months of constant, daily attention before it becomes automatic action. To change habits, it May to try different tactics. Children are bored easily, and we through.Most forget to follow the children thrive on structure, routine and schedules. When you set limits and expectations, gives a sense of security and restrictions are actually reassuring to the child. Many parents, myself included, often think our children, why not try often.However limits, children are only testing the limits and rules, as is often seek the assurance that we do what we say and are prepared to enforce limits. Fortunately, we have discussed the justification for such limits in the family and there is a good understanding of the rules and their consequences and to understand that our role is not a slave driver, but rather a sort of love and loving mother who will provide guidance that will enrich their lives and lea to gove.DON car? T TAKE IT PERSONALLYMany from irritation of the things that a child at home each day occur because the child does not know better, you can handle the task, or because he or she tries to attract our attention. If we can combine the principles of work appropriate for the positive and encouraging, our homes are required to be more functional and happy.So not give up! Being committed to working as a family to become more aware of what needs to be done to maintain the smooth functioning of daily life. Make an effort to collect the tools, lea new techniques, practices and innovative methods to deal every day with a hope that you and your family succeed.Good luck and God bless you. It is more important to do the work in world.Judy H. Wright, parent educator? article was written by Judy H. Wright, a parent educator and PBS consultant. You can find a complete list of books, tele-classes and workshops in the list you have permission to use the article providing full credit is given to the author. She can be contacted at 406-549-9813 or JudyWright@ArtichokePress.com