How to survive as a working group of parents

How to survive as a working group of parents Basic Tips 1. Communicate with your baby-sitters, nannies or au pairs, mother? S to help it stay? Date. Make the maximum possible time to talk with your child care. If you can keep the lines of communication open beyond race, you will feel much better about your child development and welfare. 2nd Do not settle for small problems. If your child only wants to eat hamburgers every day, we eat. Exceeds this time. Provide your child is not harming himself (gaining excess weight, etc.) or someone else for the behavior to let go. 3rd Being flexible and open to new ideas and options If you have a meeting early in the moing and takes an hour for your child to decide what to wear in the moing, you should let them sleep in their clothes. They think it is fun and for work on time. 4th Be honest in advance with your child to go to work and leaving with the baby-sitters, nannies or au pairs, mother? S Explain that helps you to work, encourage your child to ask questions of the caregiver. Being his enthusiastic attitude as the guardian of her son as the expectations and experiences. Remember that research shows that children benefit from relationships of trust with more than one guardian. Research has shown that children with more of an attachment were less difficult when the mother leaves for work, is more playful and content in the presence of other adults, and are less distracted by the birth of a brother. 5th Do not feel guilty or panic when the baby cries when you leave small children do not understand what "Come back later" means. As the child grows older, he begins to understand that his retu at the end of the day. With older children, reassure them that back. Never sneak out. Is trying to build the confidence of your child, do not decompose. Remember that child care can be great for your child, your child will enjoy the benefits of personal attention, interaction with other children and age appropriate educational programs that will be great preparation for school. Research shows that children who receive child care quality tend to be ahead of other children, and intellectual development. The research also shows that children in the care of children show the same degree of attachment to their mothers and the same amount for the safety of children with mothers who stay at home. Remember that if work makes you happy, you're children will be happy. Working mothers who enjoy their work have better personal settings, are happier and less depressed mothers are full time, even for those who prefer to be home. Pressing depressed mothers naturally have an impact on their children. 6. Accept help when your relative or neighbor offers to baby-sit or pick up children from school or Daycare, leave. That do not offer if you do not want to say that. 7th Keep copies of "core" Extra blankets, diapers, clothes, mannequins and put into circulation in a panic. 8th Organize plan ahead, the menus for the week so you can cook extra so there are leftovers, pack the baby? S bag the night before. Usually working parents organized. For example, working mothers spend as much time in direct interaction with their children as mothers full time. Employed mothers spend much time reading and playing with their children, such as those at home, but do not spend much time alone in the same room. 9th Abandon the idea of a perfect house perfectly clean house, nutritionally balanced meals, clean well-dressed children and a great career is a standard that is impossible due to unnecessary tensions. Give yourself a break and concentrate on what matters. Get a clean, mother? S aid to help with the laundry, cleaning and domestic work. It will be money well spent. Fast food and ready meals are not poisonous. 10th Pamper yourself once in a while when I consider some lighting candles or josh sticks, put the oil bath and some grab your favorite newspaper. Like most kids hate bath should be disturbed. 11th Plan time without children. Eat chocolate, read the newspaper or a book, go to the cinema, visiting a new restaurant or go to a museum and relieve some stress. Escape. 12th Go to a course. There are many courses to help with everything from kitchen, home economics through psychology Choosing Quality Child Care 1st The caregiver is trained and / or experience? 2nd He spoke in person or have information on at least one (preferably two) parents who have used the caregiver and says good things about her or him? 3rd If the server responds to your child as a person and communicate well with you? Are you and your child happy and appreciated? 4th He or she is willing to contribute to follow the routine of your child with things like sleep, food or special needs? 5th Are you ready to fit with his ideas on discipline, toilet training, sweets and other issues? 6. She or he, of course, such as children and enjoy caring for them? Copyright Amie Porter