How to Stop the divorce of the parents of the outbreak of conflict

How to Stop the divorce of the parents of the outbreak of conflict It is not divorce but the conflict, after a divorce the culprit of most psychological adjustment problems of children. Yes, after the divorce of their parents in the conflict should break out of a premium importance by parents who want a healthy, happy and successful divorced children.First Let the source of the majority party after the divorce of their parents in conflict. It 'only when we are able to identify precisely the source of most post-conflict divorce of their parents, we are able stop.It has said that the construction or regular communication with the former "is one of most important key to the success of divorce fatherhood. If there is an inefficient communication between spouses, you may remain unaware of the other main issues in relation to their children and so often the main source of new parental conflict.Effective parents after divorce requires effective communication. Even if the spouses do not like each other, or not too many questions that still need to work together as a team, what their children are affected. Both should know what on.With stronger co-parenting communication, there will be fewer misunderstandings and conflicts between ex-spouses - and a better chance of a sound education for children.Here the five goals is possible for improve cooperation - notification of parents: 1 Have a clear, coherent and ending rules.2. Any other parents about the possible developments or issues.3 important. Set an appointment to speak with your ex about all the problems, then politely, but during the company to resolve them.4. Develop a relationship of trust between each other.5. Be reasonable and civil to all times.To maintain healthy communication, use these guidelines when you are in person with your "ex" .1. Be consistent. Make sure your facial expressions and body language in accordance with the words.2. Relax. If the emotions are too overwhelming, leaing to relax and breathe slowly or ask that the discussion is continued below. Leave if to.3. Bring a friend. In the past, talk with your "ex" has led to violence or verbal aggression that another person with you.4. Back from. If your ex is emotionally closed. Continue to talk and explain, is angry, while the "ex" is confused. Just wait a moment or write a letter. The letters are a perfect opportunity to communicate clearly and without emotions. They also allow the other person to digest what say.5. Bounce back. If your ex-attacks you verbally, replied: "I refuse to receive her. I must be respected in this conversation, and if you can not do it now, we have on this later. "Do not act Snotty, upper, or self-righteous. Be art If your ex is still bait into an argument with calm and quietly.Remember leave the welfare of your children should always be your first priority. Think long-term effects on all that your children and your ex say and do. Follow the guidelines and objectives set out above. Effort to make your co-parenting communication so you can create the best co-parenting. Do all this for your children sake.Copyright by Ruben Francia. All rights Reserved.Publishing rights: You have permission to publish this article electronically, in print, in your ebook or on your website, for free, provided that the author information and links are listed at the end of this article. The link should be active when the article is new on a site or an e-mail. Minor changes and modifications are allowed, provided they do not distort or change the content of article.About The Author Ruben Francia is an author of an indispensable divorce Parenting Guide eBook, entitled "101 Ways To Raise Your 'Divorced' Children success ". Discover the possibilities of increasing the healthy, happy and successful, even if the children are divorced. Visit his website at support@101divorceparenting.com