Their education of youth vs Late Too Late 5 and safer Fire Tips

Their education of youth vs Late Too Late 5 and safer Fire Tips Vs LateEvery too late now and then I heard a parent say something like this: "So he must do something, how to handle our son / daughter, but it is really too late, because I am almost 18. "We're sorry, but you can wrong.While late in the game, it is never too late. I often think that I wish I had with this teen / family / before marriage. It 'always easier with a problem when they started, because this is a moment in the life of every problem when it is large enough to notice, but still small enough to resolve easily.One of the many reasons that it is never too late that in many respects, young people today employs about 25 anyway.Modeling Bad ChoicesYou really can not, fairly, very mad a teen to get something that they have shaped them.Now I am not talking about letting your child off the hook for bad behavior just because they do the same if it were young.Many tell me that parents are reluctant to talk with their children on drugs, because of fear that the child is with the parents if the drugs as a teenager. Parents should consider these fear.Just because you did, is not a good choice, and you still have the responsibility for the problem with your teens.At same time, if you model bad decisions for them, then that is a completely different story.You really can not expect your child to do what you can not see what you're doing. This is because when you're doing, do not have the moral authority to make them not to do so it.Going vs too late word that one of the best examples for children to see their parents change something that is difficult to change, is still urgently needed changing.Two important QuestionsCounselor, speaker and author Dan Allende, in his new book, "How Children Raise Parents," says that all children, including adolescents who are constantly ask two important questions: 1) I loved? 2) Can I have my way? As we have answers to these over time as one of the parents has a huge impact on our children, as out.By tu the way, the correct answers are: "Yes, you are as a people's movement that we can know" and " No you may not be your way, because the answer to question 1 "Information is AvailableDid you know that, contrary to what our parents who were available, there are a lot of useful information for you are the parents of adolescents. Read Allende book is said, go to a seminar, a Google search for the parents of teens.You not have to do this education high on its youth, is still to do as you go. Use the resources available for intensive you.Labor There are some so-called experts in education, that is to say that if one side is right for the education of young easy.I is of the opinion that such a misleading and harmful Big Fat lie.If do any training, especially young people, education is intensive.Listen working on music lists in the music your teen listens to.Don 't talk about how they dress like them or like them. E 'a way of being secured derided and ignored. But music.Get with the artists and the words. They need to know what they strongly pumped into your brain's age, because it absolutely does not affect them.Remember regard you? Visit ParentingYourTeenager to subscribe leaders Parent Coach Jeff Herring's free inteet newsletter "Parenting Your Teenager" and 5 days of free e-program on "5 things to avoid saying your youth."