Powerful Tips for improving your child s self-esteem

Powerful Tips for improving your child s self-esteem Here is a list of ways to convey the message, are useful? your children. This list could fill a hundred newsletters, since the means to increase accountability, happy children are limited only by our imagination. Here are some places to begin.1. Tell him on a regular basis, if you like. In reality, say the words. If you think, I do not? T have to say. You know? you are wrong. Does not matter if you think, ma? T loud.2 say. Tell him that you are happy that your child. Say the word and the media. If you? Feel there is something wrong and you need to know what? S pending. We all have times when we have difficulties to get in touch with our positive feelings for our children. I am not talking about those moments. I am talking in general, most of the time, if you did not feel bad for your child? Parents, there is something wrong. It can never feel good about yourself if you feel that you are not connected to him.3. To give an example to follow. Take the time to teach him the steps. Children need role models. E? S fair to expect that he knows what to do in his daily life, if you haven t shown the way it.4. Spending time with him. If you are absent most of the time, he noted, and probably think that is? S, why? T enough.5 important. Watch her when we talk about it. This vehicle? This is important and there are important. 6. Look at him, when he speaks of her. This vehicle? What you say is important. You are important. 7th Explain why. It takes more time, but he has delivered important enough to spend the time to understand. When it also explains why it is said, I understand that you need to know why. I will help you meet your needs. 8th When he tells you something that happened, ask him how he feels about it. Take the time to listen to his answer.9. When you ask a question, to promote his or her own. Say? Tell me who? or ask? Things that have been? 10th When you ask a question, does not stop when answering.11. When you ask a question, watch your answers. Don t disagree or criticize his answer. This teaches that he n? T be sure to be honest and change what they say you.12. Take your seriously.13. Join the guide. Children whose parents are of assistance to the driver does not feel themselves.14. Say no when you need to say no. Children need to know that there are limits and that some things are outside of these limits.15. When you say no, explain why.16. When you say yes, please explain why.17. Set a good example for their own behavior. Can not be expected to behave with dignity and self-respect, if you see it.18. When you lose your mood or make a mistake, we apologize. Say you're sorry, be specific about what you are sorry and give him a chance to respond.19. When you know you have disappointed him, recognize him. I ask him how he feels about it.20. Spending time alone with her. Organize activities for the two you.21. I ask him what would do.22. Give her a private space, where it can express herself.23. Respect your privacy.24. If you have done a good job on something, say so.25. If you didn? T have a good job on something, which did well.26. After a disappointment or failure, you ask? What have you leaed? 27th At the time of feedback, to describe the behavior. For example,? I like just as you asked politely? or you still need to pick up the towels on the floor. 28th When there is a problem, focus on the issue, not the child. For example, you didn? Not the last decade, the problems of this mission? is more constructive that you never finish anything. 29th Ask what thinks.30. Whether it's choosing a restaurant, cinema, or the activity of time.31. Ask him to accompany you on shopping routine, because you want to spend some 'time with him.32. Tap your when it comes to her.33. Give him a hug, at least every two days.34. Go ahead and say good night, she falls asleep. (It 'easy to forget once they are teenagers.) 35. If you want to smile and when he walks in room.36. Arise when it is with a new friend.37. Ask him to tell you that the book is read or the movie is saw.38. Review of child development literature regularly to keep you updated on what is normal in every age and stage. It is important to check your standards and expectations to ensure they are realistic for the child? Age and abilities.39. If you want a way to maintain their self-esteem. If you are not satisfied, dissatisfied or disappointed with the way in which life is transformed, it will be difficult for you to build self-esteem of your children.40. Each child must be a parent? S attention to a basis.41. Make sure your body language matches your words. If you are out of sync, will be aware of it.42. Be yourself. E-truth.43. Be appropriate. Not? T have to say everything in the head or say things, you? T lends to know.44. If it shows that you accept yourself and your actions, you give permission to same.Garrett Coaña is a therapist, coach and psychotherapist. His two Northe New Jersey, the offices are accessible to persons who reside in Bergen County, Essex County, Passaic County, Rockland County and Manhattan. Offers coaching online and telephone services and counseling for those who live at a distance. It can be accessed through or 201-303-4303.