Parenting your enemy boy or guide

Parenting your enemy boy or guide Working with many families seem to have difficulty communicating with their children. To some extent this is normal in terms of development. As a child reaches adolescence, it is very normal for them to begin to move away from his parents and relate more to their view peers.Teenagers usually their parents, either as guides or as the enemy of growth. If you are the enemy, to lea with you and you can make a long battle. If it is established that will guide you, may not know everything that goes with them, but they will be able to come to you with their problems and meet the guidelines of your authority. At least, there is a gateway between you and them. As for the line of Harry Chapin song "tangled-Puppet Up" knows that "do not need to grow up alone." As you know, if you saw an enemy or a guide? Two ways. First, ask yourself "I am with me or with me to try?" Secondly, consider how we talk about them. Let's look at some examples of the "enemy communications" and "Guide to the statement." To put it in a frame of reference for the adults, imagine how you feel if your boss told you about these two ways.Most enemy communication refers to commit what is called "adultisms. Now this has nothing to do with adultery. A adultism is simply that when you forget what his parents as a child and then expect, demand and the needs of the child who has never been an adult, to think, act, understand and perceive the world and do things like adult.Visit ParentingYourTeenager.com for tips and tools for prosperity during adolescence. You can also subscribe to our f * r * e * and the program for 5 days, 5 things not to say to your kids, parents and coach expert Jeff Herring.