How to manage behavior problems Teens

How to manage behavior problems Teens Adolescence is perhaps the most difficult years for parents and children. As with any relationship, relationship with their child goes through different phases and cycles. How were his? Hero? years the child, adolescence can become a? Advisory Board? ? I hope someone consulted on key decisions? Add to the problems of adolescent behavior that unites parents and things can be openly   Hard. Like you, as parents, can handle these difficult years is   Important for their well being and his son? s.Teenage behavioral problems: prevention is the best MedicineIt? s common sense: prevention is always the best option. If you can create a   environment, which reduces the risk of behavioral problems in adolescents, this is   Certainly ideal.Notice? s about creating an environment that reduces the   Likelihood of problems? It is not by itself keep such problems at bay.   No matter how big they are a parent, you can? Check your child not only   How can it be? no control over decisions or any other human behavior, while being.But possible? t control your child, you can control your behavior.   You can decide how to interact with your child? And here is where she   adolescents with behavioral problems begins.The Power ChoiceOne of the most effective methods of prevention is to give your child choices. I   discuss this on page 127 of my book, when? Who To Go Back Off The Deep End   Do not take your children with you. Teach your children the responsibility of giving   options such as: - What days are you going to do the grocery shopping this week? -? I? I wrote one for this season? s clothing. Want   Shopping alone or want to come to me? -? You have $ 250 for this semester. You can choose from? When children are offered options on a regular basis, they become better able   to tackle the most difficult decisions that will launch your life   form, such as: - In deciding whether or not to take drugs .- In order to defend themselves .- To move away from violence .- To choose the friends that support at the end of unhealthy friendships .- .- To select the school upper classes to enjoy .- In deciding whether and when to have sex intercourse.Since adolescent behavior problems do not just harvest the whole night, what? s important   Start your practice? preventive medicine? from the beginning. Give your children   Options? no matter how young they are. Children can decide what color of pants that   want to use, and school children will be able to determine whether to make your   work before or after a snack time.It? s never too early to start giving their children choices. These options show   Responsibilities and prepare for them? bigger? ahead.What make decisions when they are adolescents Behavior Problems HappenTeenage behavioral problems are bound to come, even for parents who faithfully   Practice? preventive medicine? and regulate and expand the options   decision-making power to their children.One problem is the curfew. Curfew is a great release, especially since the mothers   Want to keep their children safe. It is essential to be clear with your limits   while your teenagers the opportunity to discuss alteatives.On page 150 of my book, I propose the following: 1. Set a deadline. Verify that you clear.2. Discuss in advance what to do if you are late. Ask them to call you   With the phone do not worry. If you need a trip or are in a dangerous   situation, asking them to call (if it happens that some do not shout at   Them during the trip home!) 3. Discuss the consequences of the common sense of being late. A common one is   Their curfew is an hour before the next week, until proven   May be responsible over time. Once you do this, then retu to their   Was curfew. It 'important that this is not used as a punishment. Can   also decide to give them the opportunity to have more of their friends so far   curfew.These his steps to ensure that the handling of the curfew will keep kids active by   decisions about their behavior, which is crucial.   No matter what the problem is, if this is your curfew or anything else,   try to apply the same principles outlined here. Wherever possible, create   an environment in which their children can make decisions about their behavior.Finally have behavioral problems in adolescents in hand. An exaggerated reaction   ensure that an exaggerated reaction to your child? which is usually a   No attempt at the top? Trapped? next time. Instead of inspiration   good decisions, such heavy-handedness, and to discourage adolescents   increasingly poor choices.Be soft, business, be patient, be loving. Are behavioral problems in adolescents   will be much less problematic.Kelly Nault, MA is the author of When? Who To Go Back Off The Deep End   Do not take your children with you to inspire mothers to get there first? For   Good of their children. She shares time-tested tools that motivate children to   want to be well behaved, responsible and happy! Register for a   Free online course here.You parents are free to print or publish this article provided that the article bio   be written with a link to the information set out above. UltimateParent.com 2005. All rights reserved