Parents need to vent anger Try These 4 Steps to Serenity

Parents need to vent anger Try These 4 Steps to Serenity Parents are losing their self-control to anger. A friend called me and told me today a very disturbing story. He said in a television program he leaed the news of a mother who was driving with his son for four years. The mother became angry with his son and could? No longer cope with his son? S fault. Finally the mother abruptly stop, stop the car on a busy road. He pulled to the side of the road, opened the door and pushed his son out of the car, which affects only the door and drove away! Fortunately, someone saw this poor guy next to the road, stopped and spoke with the child, the police had arrived and the mother was found. Incredible? drop your child in a busy road, as it can? not face a period of four years of age? s or bad behavior with his rage! Anger is disturbed, irritated, angry, impatient, angry, frustrated and upset. There is nothing wrong with the feeling of anger. Feeling and expressing anger is healthy for everyone. What is not appropriate is to take the anger on someone else. Pushing, screaming, belittling, and the answers are not to express anger.Parents are understandably larger, bigger, more powerful and stronger than his son. Even with all this influence in the matrix? S side, parents are uncomfortable with your child? S became angry, and behavior toward their children. The children are petrified of her father? S anger. If you ask anyone what his worst memory is one of anger, which is very likely to relate to his father? S anger, either toward themselves or their children. When a child hears loud, a certain tone of voice, and listen to their fight against the parents, who plays with the chaos, because their parents? relationship is the foundation of their existence. Parents are an irreplaceable figure in the lives of their children. The thought of not having a family life of a child that I believe will be left alone on this earth. He wonders what will become of him? Scary things for a child contemplate.Four years Beth had frequent episodes of tantrums, dawling, rudeness, and just to tease her beloved younger brother Ken. Beth? Parents are always fed with Beth and angry because no matter what they did, Beth continued to be a full practice. Beth? Parents are persistent, scolding, punishing and, finally, Beth spanked every time they acted up. They started to feel guilty. Beth? Parents, we knew it had to be a better way to overcome their anger and to guide Beth emotionally more acceptable behavior, but not? So what to do. E 'was observed that the more aggressive behavior toward Beth, grew exactly the behavior you wanted to discourage. They saw that the punishment really had virtually no corrective value.Beth? Parents need some good strategies that allow their feelings of anger. They need a demonstration of his son on how to overcome their anger. What? S simple: children lea by imitation. Every child looks and leas from his mother and father. Beth also need a way to be encouraged to express their anger constructively, not disruptive. Allowing your child to express his anger, to say what? S in their minds is a healthy way of connecting with your child. Your child? S record of anger is what lets you know that the child feels safe enough to express an uneasiness thought.Many parents know that waiting time, of being grounded, loss of privileges, and disappointment were expressed much more effective forms of punishment or devalue beat. In these cases, the child leas that people are still in place, but their actions and behaviors are not. The next time you feel angry, try one or all of the following: Step 1: Physical Exhaustion ActivityWhen to you? Go mad, take your child outdoors and take a walk. Tell your child you are working outside their anger. Keep walking until you start to feel calm and control. Or you can try to run, lift weights, or walking up and down the stairs until you feel exhausted. These forms of exercise ever calm all down.Step 2: La Puerta Cerrada Giant Bear ActivityTell the child that you are angry and want that. Entering a room, do not invite his son, just tell your child to wait outside the door. Close the door and pretend you are a giant bear! Grunt, groan, stomp around and let it all out! This episode sounds funny, but lets his anger in a non-threatening. You can feel a bout of laughter, the other side of the door, as her son who thinks this sounds very funny. Need to vent anger and let out.Step 3: Angry TimeWhen letter to become angry, take the child to a table with two pencils, two envelopes and paper. Tell your child that you are writing your anger away. Give your child a pencil (or crayon) and paper. Encourage your children to start writing or drawing. You start writing? Ira letter? (just write, not speak), putting on paper what is your child that makes you so angry, what they did or not? do so. After you have finished, put the letter in a sealed envelope. When you feel angry again, open and read. Add as he feels at the end of it. After you no longer need to look at the letter, to have the letter with a ceremony. Create an opportunity for removal. This gesture allows your child to understand that anger can be expressed in the document, and not physically harm another person or spanking yelling.Step 4: Anger PlayGear Role in a room and place two places one in front of ' other more. Imagine your child sitting in another place. (Do not ask the child to this activity!) Tell us your fantasy of the child who is angry with him / her. Then go to the empty chair and talk like him / her to speak with you. A leap back to his chair and discredit to his son? S argument or logic. Tear to pieces! Go back and forth, the game you and your child, if necessary. You can share this role with Play the anger of his son after the evacuation of all your anger and be able to demonstrate the effectiveness of this technique is an expression of anger and feeling of its updated outcome.Remember, feeling and expressing anger in a non-threatening way is healthy for everyone.Linda Milo, aka The parent-son's coach, has a simple philosophy:? collecting healthy children are more expectations that the law, or to find appropriate ways for your child to discipline or rewarding. The education of children is also a deep emotional experience that requires the mother to maintain awareness of their needs?. For free advice on health and have a relationship of trust with his son 90 days, guaranteed, go to: Linda or e-mail: linda@empoweringparentsnow.com.