Safety from strangers

Safety from strangers There are a few thoughts as terrifying as the abduction of a child by a stranger. The fear causes parents to think long and hard for their children? S security. They said in a clear voice? Do not talk to strangers. The problem is that for a child? S for a foreigner is very different from a parent? S sight. Of the child? S, because a stranger is someone that is supposed to be afraid, they expect a foreigner to study or frightening ugly. In fact, if the number of aliens actually look like the child? S concept. Then, to make things more confusing for children, then teach respect and listening to their elders and are kind. Then, as models, children see us talk to people who had never met before, day after day out.So to young children and do not talk to strangers. They very willingly avoid scary looking people. However, when faced with a friendly, kind looking elderly person who could respond politely, which means that in most cases? Speaking when spoken? and how they are taught at school, which will follow their directions.Helping young children not to talk to strangers or not go with them, takes much more than mere reprimand? Do not talk to strangers. Parents who want to increase the likelihood that their child or to avoid letting unknown people should spend a good amount of time talking about the issue and teaching their children on an ongoing basis. May these tips help: When in the community, is a matter of votes, the point about different people and ask your child if he knows it. Seizing this opportunity to explain that the alien is a person who does not know, no matter what they are trying like.Next becomes very important to distinguish between the rules for adults and the rules for children. Sometimes it is sufficient that the progressive enough for you to talk to people who do not? Do you? and explain that they must get permission to do so so.In if a stranger approaches a child, they must be equipped with strategies to manage the situation. Some parents provide? Code word. Explain to your child, if someone does not know the code, are not allowed to move or speak with the person. In such situations, the child should be instructed to leave the person and immediately go to another adult know if the older child or adult is not available. It should also teach children that it is not rude. Children must understand that your permission to leave the situation and immediately.Managing your child? S security in your absence is truly a terrifying thought for most parents. We do not want to unduly frighten our children, but we want to keep them from evil. It is important to understand how our behavior can contradict what the children want to do when approached by people who do not know. We talk about the difference between what parents do in the months of May and do what the children in the month of May is only the parents can come into contact with the stove? only the parents to talk strangers.Finally, in addition to teaching that does not speak, but we also know that we can talk. For example, if your child gets lost in the store, who can talk? Compile a list of safety of your child can speak? even if they do not know them. May The list includes police, firefighters, teachers and even cashiers in stores. Remember to maintain the safety of children is under discussion and not once in a series of rules.Keep to talk to them to maintain safe.Gary Direnfeld, MSW Garydi@sympatico.ca 905 628-4847 Gary Direnfeld is a social worker and expert on issues of family life. He is in private, wrote and employs and is the promoter of the "I Promise Program? Teen safe driving initiative. GOOGLE.COM search on his name to view his many articles. Please call for your next conference and for expert opinion on family matters. Courts in Ontario consider Gary an expert in child development, the marital and family therapy, custody and recommendations and social access work.Buy book: Direnfeld To order the book, raising children without increasing Cane, send a check or money order for $ 12.00 to: Interaction Consultants 20 Suter Crescent, Dundas, Ontario, Canada L9H 6R5Parents new teenage drivers are invited to see this teen safe driving program: