Implementation of fun in compliance with the rules

Implementation of fun in compliance with the rules Family rules are for everyone in the family. The rules, which, for your family? Advantage are the most important aspect of your child lea from a mistake. The aim of the family is defined rules, so that both parents and children have consistent guidelines to help ensure that every family member knows what behavior is expected and what is not? T is expected. Family there are rules to a sense of responsibility for each person? S problem, and also helps a family with all the good rules other.Family teaches problem child, what is acceptable and what is not. Family rules are important because everyone in the family has rights. You have the right to be heard, to be treated with respect for their positions, and to live in a world free from violence. Family rules help the family have the same rights and, as the family operates.Often parents believe that children need rules, but not? T. Children quickly injustice if the parents are able to do something, but the child is punished for the same action. You? Ll hear guys say? Il? It is not right? o? How ever it can, and I can not? t? These conces are valid, so that your child knows you can? T explain this injustice only say that because I said. Parents want their children sometimes say? Always do what you said. This statement is actually just the parents? Feelings of inadequacy and authoritarian. Children do not lea to take responsibility for themselves, not to think for themselves and for others, often to blame for their mistakes and actions.Infants are too young to understand the rules of the family, but with time your child is two years, the child understands from a good bath, you can use words to express how they think and feel and can help to establish the rules. Two years are also able to follow the family rules.Here five ways to set the rules for your family: 1 Everyone must participate. Gather your family around the kitchen table. Suggest to your family, since everyone lives under one roof, which may also be that the rules everyone.2. Make a list of rules you want. Funding for each family member to see a list of behaviors that are a problem. Then speak openly the problems of the family should be. N. blame or find fault, just ideas to get started. Then on a large sheet of paper, a list of rules for the behavior you like to see, instead of the conduct that now exist. The list must have written two columns? What to do and what not Do.3. Keep the rules simple and very specific. For example? No, at home? is too vague, because what if it bus? surely everyone must leave the house. Instead, a very concrete indication of this rule: do not play (football, soccer ball, baseball) at home. Play (football, soccer ball, baseball) at the farm. Now it is possible? Ve about what not to do and what to do. For each? What not to do so? There must be a? what to do. If your child is screaming throughout the building, the standard should not be yelling and screaming. Speak quietly. Allow your child to scream and yell in his room with the door closed. This will help your child by his frustration with another family member. This is the way to replace what was happening, what you really want in your home.4. Create a reward and consequence for each rule. The rules are best preserved if it is a consequence of this action. When your child to misbehave, then there should be some form of discipline to follow. If your child is working to correct his behavior, then a good should be rewarded. The rules may make sense only if you understand that the family and the opportunities are, what the rules meaningful.5. Limit family rules to five rules to get started. Five rules is a good starting point. This short list of rules to help your child remember the rules and practices that your family daily.After starts with attention to the family of standards, and you notice that the problem is no longer a problem, drop the rule and the new rules. Gather your family around the kitchen table and a? Rule? Party. Inform the family that even if the rule is dropped, is not it? T "The rule is no longer important. It 's just that the state is no longer necessary, because the problem is no longer a problem for the family. Each time a new problem behavior appears, another family meeting family and rules # 1 above. In a very short time your family is a deeper bond of understanding and hope that the standards, the family actually benefits each family member.Copyright 2006 Linda Milo and the strengthening of the parents now. All rights reserved.Linda Milo, aka, the father-son connection coach, has a simple philosophy:? The increase more than healthy children the right expectations, or knowing the appropriate forms of discipline or reward your child. Parents of children is also a great emotional experience that you, the parents in order to create awareness for your needs?.   For a FREE educational newsletter and a free 45 minute consultation with parents and guardians about the daily challenges, go to: or e-mail to Linda: linda@empoweringparentsnow.com.