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Michael Grose s Easy Tips for Understanding Children s fault ? Seeker of guilt attention? asked a father in an education seminar Good question! Yes? I said. ? But is not that simple? I added.All offense by its nature is to focus attention? It 'hard to ignore and usually gains a certain level of attention from parents, siblings or adults.There four common types of misconduct that has reached one of three objectives. Your gut reaction is the best guide to the objectives of malfunction. If you are unsure, just react, how your feelings and your child? Answer is a definite must indicator.Here: The four types of misbehaviours: 1? Note Me? Behavior: These behaviors are Clowning, Cuteness, some problems eating, interruptions, shyness, and began to eat. Are very common in young children who believe that the world revolves around them.2. ? Help Me? Behavior: These behaviors are incompetence, laziness, forgetfulness and confusion, all the great opportunities for parents of children? s Service. If the parents? Help me? Behavior remember things and for the reorganization children soon! Both types of behavior, the target of attention. You know that your attention, the behavior when they feel frustrated or angry. And they tend to react by scolding, correcting, or remembers the task for children, the B-class attention, but sufficiently well to each rate.3. ? Make Me? Behavior: These behaviors include despite arguing, dawdling, temper tantrums and stubboness. These practices allow parents to be? T which are not? T want. The goal is to provide power and control. You know you have the power to get your hands on if you feel angry. If you really want your children to do something. It's not nice! If you react to something, often something more challenging or a lack of cooperation. Theses children don? T mind a good scrap! 4th ? I? Ll bad you? Behavior: These attitudes are hurtful strike, theft, refusal to cooperate and to say what hurt. The practices are, but the goal is the same? Retaliation, or hurt others around them. When faced with this behavior can get hurt or even retaliation threatened. ? As one could say how terrible it is for me? is a typical reaction. You also have the feeling that you are with your children to want to hurt you. It may be evil! Tor behavior works because parents are usually as predictable as a washing machine cycle. So difficult as it might seem, you can send your children? S problem, if it stops responding impulsively to children? S misbehaviours. Ignore? Notice of me? Behavior (and your attention elsewhere), no more than a mule to help children who refuse to fight for me with the power-seekers (and implement accordingly) and to avoid openly with your evil, when the risk of retaliation behaviours.Sounds slightly difficult to do. But the change of discipline and behavior of parents is mainly on the behavior change. Start by avoiding the first instinctive impulse when kids are less than perfect and to identify the problem? S target. Then you modify the usual reaction. See what happens. Experiment a little 'and expect the kids? Behavior to get worse before improving. Hanging there, and you will see the results in terms of improved behaviour.Michael Grose is a parent educator and Parenting Coach. He is the director of Parent Coaching Australia, the author of six books for parents and a popular presenter speaks to the public in Singapore and Australia the United States. For free courses and resources to help you raise happy kids and resilient teenagers visit