Holes of the course of the Fathers

Holes of the course of the Fathers It 'a sad situation in which children are brought into the world by people who are not ready to be parents. I saw many young people end up falling pregnant just for your baby in the womb of their parents or other relatives, and then go on their merry way, unconceed, as if they were still children, in many cases they are. These children are often the mother is not ready or willing to take responsibility for the care of life who thoughtlessly created. They want to go out with her friends and boyfriends so that only assume that their babysitter while the parents are a part. And, of course, does not have to pay the grandparents to babysit. Grandparents love to see the little ones. After all, is not that what is supposed to do? In most cases the grandparents assume responsibility for the care of their grandchildren, which allows parents to continue to live as if nothing had happened. Grandparents and grandchildren their love that I feel someone has to take care of them. They feel not only the love for the little ones, but also an obligation. This is understandable, but what can grandparents do not understand is that if the parents of these children will not be ready to face its responsibilities, if the parents are to do for these young mothers them.Some They have not and some do, of certainly do not want to lose their hard eaed money to pay babysitter when innocent relatives who feel guilty when saying no. What these people need to understand is that not the children to say no, but the responsibility of parents to rear a child conceived and brought into this world. Often the reasons given for the need of a grandfather or a relative care for children are deplorable at best. I heard the usual, like "I have to go to the store" and I heard some gems like "I have to cook dinner, or do I need to clean house." I stepped into another dimension? Come, now. Get real! I never had that luxury as shipping for the children during the vacuum cleaner or a meal prepared. Interestingly, I remember that for the shop with my children in tow, four of them. I know that times have changed and this is the 21st century, but the parents do not have parents? I used to take pride in the appearance of my children. I always fixed my girlfriend's hair and do my best to keep my children clean. It 'really annoyed when I see children running in the dirty clothes, no socks and no coat on a rainy, cold day, and parents do not even seem to care for the children who were coughing and nose constantly fluid. And sometimes parents can not find anywhere. The other day, my son and I were in the car on the way to the shop when two children came running through the sidewalk. I held my breath for fear that these two small IBAN an open road race. Could not be more than three to five. I looked around a parent, baby-sitter or an adult to look at, but do not see an adult sight.In in this day and age, there really is no need for those who do not want to be the parents of having children. I saw a couple of his last unwanted pregnancy by abortion only to get pregnant again six months later. This is a clear example of simple irresponsibility. I know another girl who has had three abortions by the age of eighteen. Speakers lightly the decisions of his past with their views on abortion is nothing but a "cure" for pregnancy. I think that the whole affair disgusting, to say the least. pregnancy and parenthood are too often with an indifferent attitude. There are times when people have children for the wrong reasons. For example, couples who have a child with the intention of making a relationship work that often does not. They are not young enough to show excellent and responsible parents, but unfortunately this is not always the case. The number of grandparents who are raising their children's children seems to be increasing. As I said before, the grandparents often feel obligated to their children and grandchildren. After all, someone has to take care of the child, but to assume the role of parents, grandparents allow free rein to their children in a field of irresponsibility.The greatest misfortune that the results of the immaturity of the parents is that children suffer. They are often shuffled around between the homes and families. When this is done in the long term, there is a clear lack of stability that occurs in the lives of children. Honestly, I know that some children spend more time in cars that their parents choose them and you are at home. The point is that people should plan their families, instead of deciding that you do not want children, after they already had. Too often, in fact, sums up the situation for the children they want, but do not want to raise them. Together with the beautiful, tender baby is dirty, smelly diapers, sleepless nights and a host of other skills. Abortion is not a cure for the pregnancy and the abandonment of children at home mom is not the ideal solution. Real parents make sacrifices, but in the long run, the rewards are immeasurable.Darlene Zagat is a freelance writer and author of two books, "hint: a collection of poems" and "choice." It is also an editor and columnist of the monthly print publication Moon Shadow Magazine. Visit the website to contact Darlene Darlene or darzagata@yahoo.com