Peaceful Parenting Success Story I r

Peaceful Parenting Success Story I r Jane, the mother of 13 years, Robert successfully the following parts: "I tried to change my peacefully and follow the children? Strategies more closely as I read your book last year. Notwithstanding that I am not, can not nor should not try to control my son? s behavior was a challenge. I was willing to try to control his behavior, because not only did not work, seems to affect our relationship with one another. I share this success with you, to let you know I really made the transition successfully.In March, Robert came home with a low ratio of the map. It 'full of poor excuses about his grade. He also wanted to acknowledge his father and me for our lack of support and expects that its teachers and put too much in too many pressure.Having agreement on the advance of time, my husband and I have tried a new strategy. We do t get angry or upset with Robert. We have ignored all the excuses and the blame that Robert has been done. Instead we asked what he thought of his newsletter. We asked him to self-evaluation. He was satisfied? he believes it could do better? He is interested in our help? What could we do find it useful? Robert was hit by silence.We he said that we were interested in him and the achievement of leaing at school. We thought it was his job. We want to help and admitted that what we have done so far nt seems particularly useful. We have said that he knew that could not make him do anything. We know what our world, the image quality for him and the school is the success of leaing and achievement. And we knew we could do nothing to ensure that the quality of the images of the world could never be achieved. We also believe that a quality image of the world for himself for the success school.Yes, agreed that it was a similar picture. He started to accuse us of new teachers and why he was unable to make these photos.   Once again, we recognized our mistake, trying to control his effort and achievement. I told me that my behavior was the way in which I not only did not help with school work, it seemed to undermine our good relations with him.Then have made the very difficult. Robert We have said that his school work is now in its responsibilities. We are interested in helping. He needed to ask for our help. If you could clearly describe what could be done, it would be useful for him, we'll be happy to oblige.Although was a rocky start, Robert from his school work. It is as difficult as it is, when I saw Robert play computer games or watching television when Don? T sure that he finished his school work, not saying anything. Each day during the meal of a family, I would ask Robert if he needs help. Also, my husband and I fell, it was the request for special assistance. But all the time.It was really a miracle. At the end of the school year, Robert has asked all its grades of A? S or B? S. We all stopped haggling, arguing and go school work. My husband and I fell. School work is Robert? S of jobs and responsibilities. We care, and he knows it. But more importantly, my husband and I now know that Robert too.Thank there is quiet parents? to help me lea to stop trying to control my son? s behavior. Thanks for helping me lea to respect and work with my son. Our relationship is now stronger than ever. I can so that many other parents of 13 years who can say the same thing. "ABOUT THE AUTHORNancy S. Buck, Ph. D. Parents established quiet, Inc. in 2000 to bring his knowledge and experience with more effective parenting to parents and other guardians of children. Developed the children quiet? program by 25 years of experience as a development psychologist, trainer and educator at the William Glasser Institute and mother of twins son. Its authentic, warm and authentic teaching style is clear and concise, students move from theory to reality.   Improve your family - Improve Your World