Proactive parents setting goals for your family and children

Proactive parents setting goals for your family and children Too often, we parents get caught in a cycle of reaction of the parents. A situation that happens and react, and that seems to be the only way in which mother. There will be, from time to time, from day to day and simply react to the situation around us. Taking a moment of this cycle to look to the long-term set is a great way to get some perspective and begin to bring his family in the right direction.We? Re so busy. Frantic. Hectic. We expect for the weekends (or holidays) to have fun with our families. We? New on the road since the moing? Til the evening and the night? Re often so exhausted that we only have enough energy to sit in front of the TV and zone out.No surprisingly, there are the parents to meet, flying by the seat of our pants! We? Re all doing our best every day for our families. But there are l? Another way for our children a good mother, love, life in the long term that lends itself to the possibility joy.By and take a few minutes today to re-align with your goal for your family, you can make a positive change which is spreading rapidly to every person in your household. If you are married, do this exercise with your spouse. Get on the same page and start working now to achieve the same objectives. If you are co-parenting with a non-resident parent, to meet and spend only a small amount of time that will make a big difference in the lives of your children. If you are a parent, it is even more important that you take the time to be proactive, then you are not chasing the tail of your hand! Being a proactive parent means you do what you want for your children to long term and to take all the parenting time just to help them achieve this goal. I? Ll show what I mean.One things that I want for my children is for them to be financially independent. I want you to know how to use their money to create passive income. I want you to know that they can live their passion in life and make money, too. I want to know how to save, invest, tenth and spend their money wisely. Thus, the maintenance of this objective in mind, like the parents to achieve this goal? Here? And what I do: at the age of five years, my children will begin to receive a check. They have a 10% savings, 10% much to invest later, 10% are donated to charity and 70% to spend on something they want. (My husband and I have this idea from Robert Kiyosaki? S Rich Kid, Smart Kid's site Rich Dad, Poor Dad books. These are excellent resources for leaing to manage your money.) Do my children 's full freedom their money. In this way, of course, lea to save for things they want. They see the physical and having to spend money. If you blow all their money on sweets today, who won? T have enough to buy their toys? I want tomorrow. My children know that if they want to ea more, they can do more tasks at home. This gives them and gives them the freedom to choose their level of income. At the age of eight years, to begin work on investment. We find something? King fans (for Jean, his baseball card) and start leaing to invest in things you like (on) and make more money. How? Set aside 10% of its income for the last three years, has a lot of money to invest. And, as you saved? A need not be conceed if all of its investments donation? T are the winners. One of the most important things we do to help our children to be financially is to talk about money with them. We are very careful about the vocabulary that the use: Always use the empowerment? Choice? words, right? missing? words. If John wants something that can not or do not have the means to choose, is the? Forever? We? Re choosing to use our money differently this time? ever? what? too expensive? o? us? t afford. You notice the difference between the products and prices, but we? T make judgments. These discussions occur naturally and are part of our parents. We are positive that we want our children to grow with prosperity consciousness, consciousness is not poverty. Today we talk about money is like thinking that money is a small tomorrow.That goal that Michael and I have for our children. Let us keep in mind this goal every day, every moment of the birth of a child. Sometimes his work: I think that maybe John wants the toy is a waste of money and? Its hard to resist talking to him about it. But as it always has to lea to make smart choices, whether it? S never allowed to choose for himself? Freedom is a source of power, although it may be a po 'di scary.Now is? S time to sit down and do the following year. May you be able to do it in minutes or you might think for a couple of days, then sit down with your partner and put on paper your answers. As Steven Covey The 7 Habits of highly successful people, from the end in mind! Start today for the parent, with the end in mind: happy, successful children who grow up full power adults.Step 1: Sit back, relax, have a cup of tea or a glass of water, and only for a few minutes. If you pray, ask for advice and to know the best targets for your family. If you wish, you can simply close their eyes for a few minutes and focused and get more. The best parenting comes from that place of calm and know that it is deeply within.Step 2: Write six sentences, leaving space between them to write: 1. Financial Security   2nd Physical health   3rd Emotional / spiritual   4th Creative freedom   5th Reports   6. Other GoalsStep 3: Start to think and write to any object or want for your children that come to mind. Most of the objectives is one of the top five categories. Imagine your children as adults. What are the skills that you need? I am happy, successful, the power of the people? What is their relationship like? Just to write and imagine until you've filled a sheet of paper.Step 4: On a sheet of paper, rewrite your subjects and from 6 to five major objectives for each area of development. E? And if you and your spouse have different priorities. Select one that is very important for both, and choose any two to be added to list.Step 5: Choose an area of development to begin work on the ground and add others as you can. Keep in mind your goals as a parent, please note that children and modeling behavior you want is the most effective way to teach your children. Emerson said:? Your actions speak so loud that I can not hear what you say. Keep handy your goals and update them if necessary. Remember to celebrate your children? S success with them and let them talk to celebrate yours.Straight the mother, the ones where you and know-how to help your family: Shelly Walker is the mother of two beautiful children and the author of Power and awakened the next book Parenting Keys. Shelly has a passion for children and believes every child deserves to be healthy and happy parents. For more information, visit