R tranquilla Parenting Success Story III

R tranquilla Parenting Success Story III Submitted by Maureen, the mother of 7 years and Kenny 5-year-old Stephanie: "I had a terrible problem with my son bites his sister during their arguments. Although Kenny is older, his sister had better language skills. So if they argue, Stephanie seemed to have the upper hand because they are in spirit with the words Kenny. From the frustration that would have a bite to win. Unfortunately usually worked. Stephanie would be back, after he violated Kenny.Based reading tranquilla parents? and, in particular, suggestions for me? ve the newsletter, I realized that could solve this problem, as punishment for biting Kenny. Here? s what did.When kids played well together and enjoy each other, I broke it. I asked what he did. I asked her why she would be able to so well together in this game. Even if their answers weren? t very specific, they answered.Next I asked them how it is an argument, unlike the usual way of using words and Stephanie Kenny bite. None of them has a different idea. I was ready, so I proposed. I did it with a? Magic Ball? Here is a small rubber ball that I colored. I told them that once one of them believes there is a conflict brewing, it retrieves the ball. The other is saying? again. It also means that the two together to come to me so I can help them resolve their conflicts. My plan was to ask the magic question, when it came to me for help. Both were agreed plan.In beginning, I had to get in arguments that had already started to hand them a ball, then I would ask? Stephanie, what you want to try to deal with words with Kenny bullying? Or? Kenny, what you want to try to bite through the confusion Stephanie? After I discovered that what I wanted to help the child that he or she to lea another way to get what was wanted. I would also like to ask? Are you ready for the next time Magic ball, before using words / bite? I was patient. It seemed as if I were to take a hand in the magic sphere. But after about two weeks the children started with the ball! And now even better happened. The children leaed the magic question so well that if you take the ball the other asks what they want, without my action to quiet all.Thanks parents?. Teaching my children how things together, without words or bad behavior is a miracle! "On AUTHORNancy S. Buck, Ph.D. Sitting quiet Parents, Inc. in 2000, to their knowledge and experience with effective education for the greatest number of parents and other caregivers of children. He developed the quiet parents? Program of its 25 years of experience as a development psychologist, trainer and educator with the William Glasser Institute and as the mother of two children. Their real, warm and authentic teaching style is clear and concise, students make the transition from theory to reality.   Improve your family - Improve Your World