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Their education of youth, but not afraid impossibe Myth: All teenagers have to rebel, and the teen years will be miserable years for a family.REALITY: Teens have the separation of their parents and families. What is good - otherwise it would be children living at home, if they did 35.They the privilege in charge.MYTH: When teenagers rebel, you've lost forever.REALITY: This is the fear of all parents, but this does not happen in most cases. As the saying goes, "the education of a child in the way he should, and even when he is old is not it." This is a concept developed Miller Newton's book, "Adolescence: Surviving the perilous jouey. 'His view is that all adolescents withdraw, and will go so far to isolate. But it reemerge at some point. Some of the parents' job, then is the connection so a relationship can, if reemerge.MYTH: Raising teens is easy if you right.REALITY: When you hear some so-called experts in education, the increase in children - even adolescents - is a walk in park.According them, the only source of difficulties, as you are doing is wrong (and not the way, in other words). The reality is that parenting is a lab-intensive work. To teach children morals and character, you have against the ruling culture.MYTH: Your teen years were like yours teenager.REALITY: Many of the issues they are dealing with characters very similar to that before. But the world, the atmosphere and the culture in which we deal with these issues is very different. Do not make the mistake of thinking that all same.MYTH: If you have not parented as it would have continued until today, it's too late for something groped different.REALITY: This is one of those seductive little lies that sounds so close the truth. But it is not. Even if you gave your children for a long time ago, is still not too late for parents in different ways. If you do not like it at first, but you do not need permission, and you never have. You can, over time their cooperation.MYTH: Parents need to control all times.REALITY: Well, yes and we no.As young people in an increasing number of areas, giving them enough rope not to hang, but to grow. If you can demonstrate that in a certain area, it may be that one.Visit ParentingYourTeenager.com for tips and tools for thriving during the teen years. You can also subscribe to our f * r * e * e 5-day e-program on The Top 5 Things to Never Say to your youth, education and coaching expert Jeff Herring.