A s scolding in the final analysis, communication tools

A s scolding in the final analysis, communication tools (Adapted from Jim Rohn 2004 Weekend Leadership Event) must be very careful of scolding. Regan, as a last resort, it may be necessary, but be very careful. Scolding is like giving someone a break, giving them a small cut on the hand. Perhaps your goal, and the cut was healed and all is well. I needed to get their attention. But should not do it every day, all children at the end with psychological scars time.Some because they were cut (scolded) every day. Scolding, scolding and close each day psychologically disadvantaged because of this type of treatment. Because someone has the words, but words are cruel, and too often used, all the time, rather than saving as a tool of last resort. Just cut and scold all the time, and children sometimes have difficulty to quit this job because of this type of environment. Too serious, too serious, "we say. In some countries, if the theft, he cut his hand. In our country, we say: "This is a little 'too seriously, no?" But guess what they say, is very effective. "Ask someone who has stolen," Did you ever steal anything else "It certainly will respond," Are you kidding me with one hand - No! "Therefore, it is effective, but also their parents say they want to talk about a severe.So unusually cruel scolding. You must be equipped to think of ways to communicate effectively with their children. Now required at some point the gravity as the last, as a last resort. The father of John Kennedy, "Old Joe," said John, and you will see when they serve in many ways. Now here is what "Old Joe", said: "If you do not need to change, there is no need to change." I'm sure scold now.If message is not absolutely necessary, so it is not necessary scold. If you do not need to use sarcasm, and then communication is necessary not to use sarcasm. If you do not need to be angry, then you do not need to get angry, you idea.If the father cries every day in their children, finally, the children get used to it. They lea to say "Momma, just crying all day." The children come to visit the children and say, "Momma do not mind, she is just a scream, just scream all day." Therefore, I Children are used. But now here's the big problem ... when 3 years, son of the head of the road and a truck is Momma and screaming, and nobody pays any attention.See Momma should save their cries, so that the day becomes a necessary last resort, and that the cry, the the world stops! See that's the key. These are called "instruments of last resort, to good use! To your success, Jim RohnReproduced with permission from Jim Rohn Weekly E-zine. Copyright 2005 Jim Rohn Inteational. All rights reserved Worldwide. To subscribe to Jim Rohn Weekly E-zine, go to