Let them have their temper tantrums

Let them have their temper tantrums Children aged between one and seven are open to emotional harm. Temper tantrums are a child expresses his frustration to a situation or person. If your child feels frustrated, you hear a lot of mixed feelings. Usually, temper tantrums are caused by stress. This is all that stress disturbs the normal balance of the body. There are two types of physical and mental stress. These loads your child due to a feeling of fear, confusion, frustration, sadness and anger. If a child feels in control and not in balance, the child will respond with a temper Tantrum, food, or make fun, to make their way. This is a part of life and the growing up.Understandably, parents strive to situations of stress from his son? Life, but this is easier said than done. Moreover, the modification of a simple routine in a child? Life can tantrum.Thank of goodness, to have children, how to overcome the stress of life. You can do cry, scream, talk, play and laugh. These mechanisms of stress release will help your child cope with every day. If your child accidentally breaks his favorite truck, he cry and maybe even anger show. Sense of desperation in his loss. The crying is a very important for your child to get out of his system of evil and disappointment, he feels. Energy Crying helps the child to the emotion you feel, you feel stress, and reduces your blood pressure and heart rate. This is beneficial to the entire physical system. Parents should try to ensure their baby to cry, their situation does not suppress these feelings. Repressed feelings that normally lead to physical illness and behavioral problems on the road. Most parents understand their children, the love and support for their child in this type of situation.But what if your child has temper tantrums and can? T understand why the child is in? What can I do if my child is in a temper Tantrum why didn? T in their way? With a crying child is usually the parents feel angry, powerless, anxious and impatient. If you are in that type of situation, and you are with your child? S esplosione, try these three tips to make an emotional safety catch for you and your child: ► immediately relaxed? Hum a little piece for themselves, and then distances from emotional stress you feel about your child. Your child needs love and acceptance, to draw attention, not necessarily to his cry. The child will be better your feelings when you know that you accept and acknowledge him as he shouts, kicking, screaming, or flinging the field. In this way, the very important emotional bond with your child strong, while the child is with his temper Tantrum. ► If you're feeling relaxed, they say the baby (and not through criticism or threatened) you understand that he is angry. Is this possible? T Dodge temperament all around, but we can say that once your child is finished with its wines, you want to talk to him. Now go to your company to do, brings you the comfort, and behave as if the Tantrum is only you and your inner balance.By attention to your child? S unwanted behavior, you are actually encouraging the child to his performance. Dare to temper tantrums and other causes misbehaviors of these requirements for the future. If a child knows that it is a pay-off (as a reward or bribery in an attempt to put the child in good behavior behavior) to burst out, a development model, which is usually very difficult to change. The child can lea in a way that a treatment, to be unhappy with the struggles and temper tantrums. Don? T reward this behavior, because then it would be useful, and the incident would only encourage him, to show this behavior over and over again. The child leas to manipulate you and your actions. ► If your child cools, or even if the Tantrum continues for a long time in pop, where the child is crying, and suggest some fun, you can do together. Speak slowly and softly and tell your child that as soon as it is, you're ready to play with him. Your patience is what your child needs in this time.By after these three tips that you recognize your child? No feeling of desperation, have their own needs are not sucked into an emotional rollercoaster ride, and it communicates to the child who, with attention to his words and works of unwanted, there are still around and ready to the love and support him when his system.Copyright? 2006 by Linda Milo and strengthen parents now. All rights reserved.Linda Milo, the father-son connection Coach, specializes in helping mothers and fathers, their parents' challenges in living a better, more entertaining and family life. Your free newsletter Parenting more specific, immediately usable and proven methods for overcoming the most common educational challenges. As for their free newsletter and also for a 45-minute consultation with parents to lea with less stress.