Raise Awesome Kids The 4-Point Plan Gets Results

Raise Awesome Kids The 4-Point Plan Gets Results Your children truthful, kind and helpful? If this is the case, read no further. If not, please listen to Colby and his mother. All my friends cheat? announced 11-year-old Colby. What? cried his mother? ? Not? T wants to deceive you? Sometimes? Colby answered. ? But I never caught. It is not all right to cheat on, young man? scolded his mother. ? How many times have I said that fighting is wrong? What's wrong with you? Whether it's lie, steal, cheat, or other problem, do lectures on honesty, while the child is rolling his eyes? I remember the advice a father loved his daughter, so he had his two hours lessons. They not only rolled his eyes, but his finger to tap. He cry? Are you listening to me? Uh-huh? they? d answer.Parents, there is an easier way. Not? T, to two hours each. Consider the 4-point plan: sample Listen Estimate N. CriticizingInstead worrying, food, or to help with long speeches, the goal of understanding what and how the child thinks. By knowing what the child thinks, we are able to influence the way he or she thinks. This simple program will help you communicate more effectively.Let? S retu to Colby. Instead of lessons? PROBE Ask nonjudgmental questions. Get as much information as possible in order to understand how and what does the child. Help your child with questions like: How do you feel if a fraudster is best grades you? How honest do you think children feel about cheaters? As you lea your class, if all around? What advice would you give to cheaters? Depending on your child? S probing questions with responses own.LISTEN Listen with respect. Do not use your opinion. If you stop, your child may be switched off and say what you want to hear. So are you? Ll be stuck where you started, not knowing what or how your child really thinks.APPRECIATE Looking for an opinion from you that your child really commendable. Smile, agree, and let your child know what you like about him. I hope that your child will already have some old ideas about fraud, how? Okay to cheat, if not? T be caught. NO criticism Why not criticize and lecture? Because you must think about what the child says. You must be new ways to influence your child? S think of a more healthy. You must create a well-out planning for your child? S improvement.If further this 4-point plan to be with your child the three gifts of inestimable value that people want everything to be heard To understand AppreciatedThese gifts for your child bond with her and the influence of his character too.This 4-point plan is a powerful tool for the discussion of issues in film and on television. You can also use it to real life problems in school, neighborhood, in your family, and especially the stories with dilemmas. The next time you have something important to discuss don? T Lecture. The next time sample, listen, understand, and not criticism. Try it out. You? Ll like it. Why? Since this 4-point plan to achieve the desired results, a child with an awesome awesome character.Jean Tracy, MSS, invites you to sign in young hearts and minds grow. For your awesome kids with solid character, parents sign up for FREE Newsletter and its download their free bonding activities, tips and articles on educational rights reserved. Please observe the copyright. Post this author of a field, if you know about this product. Please advise when and where you can reprint this article.