The fight against child

The fight against child What if your children argue and fight among themselves? Make a call for peace, for the combatants to their rooms to determine the guilt or the child who caused the violation? It 'almost impossible to stay away from children? because the noise and are always a child to call mom or dad to intervene.My research indicates that the fight against his brother, is a conce for parents in three of the four families with more than one child. Certainly this is the problem that most parents want to discuss when they come to my parents seminars.It is important to have a realistic attitude to children in conflict. When the adults who live together under one roof is disagreement. Why should children be different? Conflict in itself is not harmful, but how to solve the problem is the gap that parents.Look generally refers to the nature of most disputes. Usually starts as a disagreement over some issue as the choice of television programs, the outcome of a game or a refusal to share. I saw my children fight for the land, destroying the questions of who should sit in the front seat of the car. The problems that children may be more fighting, but the slightest disturbance of the peace can be extremely difficult for parents to face. Often occur when you are busy and have little time to manage effectively.Kid? The fights are usually a series of predictable stages. The first phase is quite annoying when a child or another critical niggles. The dispute between the two phases, as the noise level rises and children are agitated or belligerent. The fight is almost complete so the parents have to prepare for the third phase is the phase of movement, when the fight moves from one area of the house to another accompanied by the use of insults, shouts and flying to the door. You can also become physical.The anti climax when usually one or all parties conceed to come to tears, telling stories or looking for justice, with the old line, "Mom, I hit and do nothing. It is likely that for the walkman, the volume of the TV or get low. All this for a while 'peace and quiet! Fortunately, there are strategies that parents can use to reduce drastically the amount, frequency and intensity of the fights that occur within families. A simple prevention strategy is the use of regular relations team. Once a week parents sit with their children in a quiet place and discuss family issues and conces, as well as talk about positive things that have occurred in recent weeks. Invariably, children and conflict in the fight against children are reared. This gives children a voice and an opportunity for parents to teach children how to resolve conflicts and reasonably quiet. My research shows that families who have a process of dispute resolution in place, as a group or family gatherings slip experienced a significant reduction in children fighting.Michael Grose is a teacher and mother of parenting coaches. He is the director of parent coaching Australia, the author of six books for parents and a popular presenter who speaks to the public in Australia and Singapore to the United States. Free lessons and resources to help you raise happy kids and resilient teenagers visit a deeper understanding of why children fight and how it can drastically reduce the amount and intensity of combat to read a step forward: a guide for the collection of 3 to 12 years in