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Do parents Challenge 9 in more ways than Dealing with a defiant child can be exasperating! Children who hold easily enter into a power struggle and a mother to wear down. The key is to not go in the struggle for power with the opposition a child. Here are 9 options you can use to gain greater cooperation from its child.1. Use positive communication. Test your command of phrasing parenting in a positive than a negative. For example, if your child says? Can I watch TV now? rather than simply say No. Maybe? T.? it can be said? You can watch TV after dinner. O? I can show the film for you to watch after dinner. 2nd Give the child two choices. As a parent, you can choose both options are equally acceptable offer to you and your child. The child is less likely to object if they have some control over the situation. For example, you might say? Would you like to do the work before or after school, the school today? 3rd Reflect the feeling of retuing the child. Sometimes, showing compassion for the child, reflecting back? New feelings can be helpful. It can be said? You? Back angry because you can now? Not to complete the construction of the tower of Lego. What? S hard to stop a project before you? Finished, ISN? No? 4th Say what? Been seeing and what? Want to see. ? Wow! I want to say? No.? I love children, when I say, YES! YES! YES! You can tickle the baby or the use of 'humor to see if you can get to say yes! 5th Member of his command as a statement, not as a question. Parents often say? Want to make your house now? or other controls to be established in a study voice. Instead, simply say? No? S time to do at home now. 6. Make it fun to get to the next place. If your child has problems with transitions and becomes the opposition, have hops like a frog on the door, or your favorite CD in the car waiting to be heard to.7. Establish house rules. If the house is that it is going to bed at 8 pm, and then the rule. If your child says, just repeating the rule again and again, instead of entering a debate with child.8. Use rewards. Focus on your child? S positive rather than negative ones. Put a marble in a jar every time the child does something for the first time that you requested. Brainstorm with your child that the reward will be next? Having served a number of times.9. Think prevention, many children develop pattes of negativity. Specific trigger was a child. Look for what is causing your child? S challenge and try to change the patte so that the child may be successful.Toni Schutte, father of buses, MA, LP,   has 11 years of experience to help parents find solutions that work. For your e-course on how to win wars task? FREE monthly newsletter for parents to go