Mamma Baby weight prosper

Mamma Baby weight prosper A guide for appropriate weight gain, and what to look for if you suspect growth retardation: weight gain: Bo? 2 weeks ago  regain birth weight, as well as some 2 weeks? 3 months  Two pounds per month, or one per day for 4 oz? 6 months  pounds a month and a half ounces a day (birth weight should double from 6 months) at the age of one year  2.5 to 3 times their birth weight of growth: there is a difference between 'slow weight gain and growth retardation. With the slow weight gain, which is consistent. With failure to thrive, you'll see a child who continues to lose weight after 10 days of life, rather than their birth weight by three weeks of age, or gains in an unusually slow rate during the first months of life. Things to see, mother? S and child? S on this page are: Mother? S side  Incorrect care technology (poor on-boarding, etc.)  nature or life style (not enough sleep, liquids, foods rich in nutrients, etc.)  Poor release of milk (in terms of let-down)  diet frequently (this could be the son of foremilk abundance and the lack of hindmilk, they are nutritionally rich and calorie) diet  rare (a slave to the clock)   No physical character growth monitoring of maintenance, operations and Infant cuddle?   S side weak suck suck Wrong-o Tongue thrust, the pressure on the nipple from his mouth and protruding tongue, the language will be a hump in the mouth, so that the block-Tongue sucking, sucking his tongue and not on the nipple  a basic medical problem (if you suspect, talk to your pediatrician immediately), you need first aid lactation consultant can be very helpful in resolving issues relating to the block or inverted nipples, which can lead to a problem with care. Let your consultant to observe the care of the child and check if there are problems in the position, latching, or something else. Do not allow the consultant to keep the flexibility, if this routine? S, what you? Ve decided, for your family. Remember: if you were unhealthy flexible routine, NICUs wouldn? T for most of the babies? Preemier. If you determine that your care problems can not be solved or more stress on you as a mom that you need not feel guilty for passing a bottle. It is important that the child receives food, to grow and prosper, as compared to someone else? S ideal of motherhood.

The fight against child

The fight against child What if your children argue and fight among themselves? Make a call for peace, for the combatants to their rooms to determine the guilt or the child who caused the violation? It 'almost impossible to stay away from children? because the noise and are always a child to call mom or dad to intervene.My research indicates that the fight against his brother, is a conce for parents in three of the four families with more than one child. Certainly this is the problem that most parents want to discuss when they come to my parents seminars.It is important to have a realistic attitude to children in conflict. When the adults who live together under one roof is disagreement. Why should children be different? Conflict in itself is not harmful, but how to solve the problem is the gap that parents.Look generally refers to the nature of most disputes. Usually starts as a disagreement over some issue as the choice of television programs, the outcome of a game or a refusal to share. I saw my children fight for the land, destroying the questions of who should sit in the front seat of the car. The problems that children may be more fighting, but the slightest disturbance of the peace can be extremely difficult for parents to face. Often occur when you are busy and have little time to manage effectively.Kid? The fights are usually a series of predictable stages. The first phase is quite annoying when a child or another critical niggles. The dispute between the two phases, as the noise level rises and children are agitated or belligerent. The fight is almost complete so the parents have to prepare for the third phase is the phase of movement, when the fight moves from one area of the house to another accompanied by the use of insults, shouts and flying to the door. You can also become physical.The anti climax when usually one or all parties conceed to come to tears, telling stories or looking for justice, with the old line, "Mom, I hit and do nothing. It is likely that for the walkman, the volume of the TV or get low. All this for a while 'peace and quiet! Fortunately, there are strategies that parents can use to reduce drastically the amount, frequency and intensity of the fights that occur within families. A simple prevention strategy is the use of regular relations team. Once a week parents sit with their children in a quiet place and discuss family issues and conces, as well as talk about positive things that have occurred in recent weeks. Invariably, children and conflict in the fight against children are reared. This gives children a voice and an opportunity for parents to teach children how to resolve conflicts and reasonably quiet. My research shows that families who have a process of dispute resolution in place, as a group or family gatherings slip experienced a significant reduction in children fighting.Michael Grose is a teacher and mother of parenting coaches. He is the director of parent coaching Australia, the author of six books for parents and a popular presenter who speaks to the public in Australia and Singapore to the United States. Free lessons and resources to help you raise happy kids and resilient teenagers visit a deeper understanding of why children fight and how it can drastically reduce the amount and intensity of combat to read a step forward: a guide for the collection of 3 to 12 years in

Membership in a career of helping children to avoid, as if you've connected a contributing

Membership in a career of helping children to avoid, as if you've connected a contributing While youth gangs are nothing new - that have made the beginning of the 19th Century - the demographic of a youth speed is something that is constantly evolving. Many people stereotype gang members urban center male racial minorities, but in fact gangs are a problem in suburbs as well as the cities, for all races and for girls, and about 750,000 are boys.There Gang Members in the U.S. , estimated by the U. S. Department of Justice, and one third of them are under 18 years. And while it is still true that men for most of the course-members more than 90 percent are men to join the course for women is always exactly common.What is a Gang? Each course has its own needs and peculiarities, but the United States of Justice says that all bands have one thing in common: "A group must be involved in a patte of criminal acts, such as young-course." The Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI) is defined as a band, "a criminal enterprise, an organizational structure, more of a criminal conspiracy, that violence and other criminal activities to society. "In addition, gangs rule: * the development of some racial and ethnic lines * are usually dominated by men, with some members of the female sex, whether female gangs are on the rise * Center on a specific area * As an organization that makes from a larger group * display symbols associated with their band through the clothing, tattoos, graffiti, hand signs and languageWhy do Kids Join Gangs? According to a Fact Sheet from the White House for the new youth initiative for the protection of gangs of young Americans, the large number of violent criminals such as those of the United States in bands growing up in single parent families without a father around. There is also evidence that children who are with her family, school and community are less likely to be used in risky behavior such as participation in a gang.This may explain why, in general, children in gangs to feel like they belong, and have a sense of purpose. In fact, children in many of the bands for the same reasons that children are a group, like a football match or scout: * search for a sense of self, belonging and commitment to the research facility and * * * A monitoring framework needs for recognition, higher status and acceptance * Voltage and something to doGang SignsAdditionally, children may be due to bands in need of protection * * * Need a family tradition of money (Children in gangs can ea money from drug trafficking), as Your Children Away From GangsSince most children, the gangs are doing, because I am a social network, for a group, to ensure that the Your child will love and support at home and through positive action is the key to keep away from gangs. This was the case with David Danisa, a young man who could easily become victims of their bands as friends around him constantly. Instead Danisa friend Jurell Spivey and programs in schools and also in the guide, the younger children from gangs. "There are a lot of pressure at school," says Danisa. "If you have people who will help you in the programs that are executed with greater self-esteem. You can fight through the tough things. " And to put it simply, after your day is full of sport, volunteering and other activities, "You do not have time to do something evil" Danisa said.Aside recording your children or in community programs in school young people from an early age, the following suggestions may help you: * Encourage your child to think independently * Take active interest in his life: Be With You! * Get to know the friends of your son and sound friendship * Teach your child strategies to deal with hard times * Support your child with words and gestures to awaken in them a sense of self-esteem and personal responsibility * too discouraged influence on exposure to the media that glorify drugs, sex, gangs and violence to children, which may HelpIf you suspect that your child, friend or family member in a gang and that they need help, there are many resources available. First, after the Los Angeles County Sheriff's Department: * The member must think and believe that the outcome of the corridor, and you want .* Reduce the amount of time with the band. It 'best to be done gradually, rather than to sever all ties .* Immediately replace the bonds with positive activities like sports, art, work, religion, education, volunteering, etc. * Remove Gang Tattoos and change the clothes and the language of communication tools. * Create a new group of friends and an alteative system, such as boys and girls club .* help other young people in gangs, for a better life, away from gang.Other useful resources include: * National Clearinghouse on Families & Youth * Family and Youth Bureau * YMCA * Your local community youth centerFrom SixWise.com FREE E-Newsletter, the Web's # 1 most read newsletter with original articles in all 6 areas of life leading to the well-being.

Parenting Your Teenager 7 Tips for a successful back to school

Parenting Your Teenager 7 Tips for a successful back to school Blink. That's all I did blink, and summer ends and a new school year is beginning.Parents have mixed emotions. Relief that the children go back and fear that another school year, and the battles that come with it, is just around the coer. Here tips are a good school year for students and parents.Tips to a good start StudentsGet. If you start in the back, digging a hole that will spend the rest of 'years outside of the hull, where appropriate all.Get a good finish. Even more important to get a good start is to get a good finish. Doing things that began a year and a half ago. Follow through and finish well.Duck conflicts of personality. At some point in their school life, to be implemented in a teacher who does not get along. Instead of blaming his poor performance on "the teacher is not like me, take it as a challenge to lea how to be successful even if someone does not like authority. It 'a good training for real-delay monster world.Beat - The next time you are tempted to procrastinate, only postpone it. Procrastinate procrastinating and make the now.Tips for ParentsPromote a love of leaing. At some level, most children are very obedient in the sense that the model and copy our behavior and attitudes, the good, the bad and the ugly. Not see their children every time they read? Lea something new? Discuss the issues of the day with them? If so that leaing takes place in high esteem in the family, states that the maximum value for their own leaing as well.Go a school for your child. Walking through the corridors between classes, walk through the cafeteria during lunch. You have to see how it was when we were kids.Some parents believe that the car is the best place for this conversation. You have a captive audience and are not looking at each other. Other parents have found that 15 minutes of programming a week to talk about school them.For that works well for many other tips and tools for a great school year, visit Back to School Tips for Success

In Search of self-esteem

In Search of self-esteem Mark and Joanne are the parents of a daughter who recently graduated eighth grade and high school. The girl is a straight "A" and students are expected to attend the school, parents believe they have greater social influence curriculum and ap derivatives believe that their rebellion and the recent act of sexual conduct with children is was a reflection on their attitude towards school. In order to ensure that it was in the best possible environment, Mark and Joanne to the parent-teacher conference and the private school.The attention of the meeting was to reassure parents that the school had a strong curriculum with a particular focus on three R, academics and other components. If the parents of the meeting were ecstatic. When one says to his daughter from imminent changes in schools, but their response has been dramatic. Their challenge raised and sexual acting out has been frequent and flagrant. It was also due to shoplifting. After a month of turmoil that the family tued to the council. After a short period of time, it became clear that the parents on academic and academic modules seemingly natural way to a straight "A" student has been at the expense of recognizing that an element as important for her daughter's success in life absent. She had no self-esteem.The ability to feel self-confidence is an essential element for the survival of human capabilities. It provides the necessary sense of competence, motivation and capacity to deal with things and people that the life of the arts to their highest potential. Without self-esteem, the ability to successfully navigate the obstacles of life has decreased significantly. People with little or no self-esteem rather emphasizes retaliate against life, because there is a trend that they themselves create value in any case, that experience, everything that is individual and the necessary rational and strategic solutions to a problem of circumvented.Lack self-esteem is also an equal opportunity destroyer, the impact on the whole range of economic and social categories. Unlike a case of measles, can not so easily identified. Previously, people with low esteem are easily recognizable because of their acute withdrawal or aberrant behavior, which may still exist. However, many patients suffering from this current state of a competent and not outside, while inside it, living a life of inner turmoil and self fear.Where not like? Some doctors believe that the personality of a child is disposed of, while others believe that taught and instilled in the same way all the cognitive tasks may be incorporated. It seems more accurate, that there is a healthy combination of the two polarized views. Although the etiology of the disease is important for parents, it is useful to understand the signs and symptoms of affected.Children those with low self-esteem may be shy, but others have a tendency to bullies, or show aggression with siblings small or colleagues. Most are also exposed to strong emotional reactions to frustration or exaggerated, hold grudges, persevere in their appearance, or focus on what they regard as unjust, as a friend, a brother with toys, privileges, or attention etc.. As we get older, you can with their inferiority by feigning illness to avoid school or social situations and are more inclined to take a high-risk behavior - everything from sexually acting out, eating disorders, shoplifting, smoking , drugs, or underachieving. Emotional, which can cancel the stress for children of similar age and feels the pressure of the opinion that people, recreation, or social.As parents, it is also important to understand that low self-esteem is also an emotional condition with deep roots and not merely a cognitive disorder. There is a tendency for parents to "talk away", or try to rationally explain why they are their children "should" feel good about yourself. However, the child tries to convince them they should do otherwise is void, even if some of the realities of clinical trials can finesse in family discussions. This approach is more likely to teach the child better to hide their feelings of inadequacy, replace communication with parents and the distrust of the outside appearances hold properly. Instead, we can encourage our children, for the estimation of our children with love and care and maintaining good lines of communication. It is also important that the skills that teach how to navigate obstacles of life, rather than a way to avoid that, while all the limits and realistic consequences. In extreme cases, professional intervention may be effective in teaching the child and the family, as to feelings of low self-discharge esteem.You May reproduction or publication of this article freely as long as you have a visible, active links and the author is bio.David Aronshohn a doctor of psychology and licensed marriage and family therapist. He maintains a private practice and business in Westlake Village, CA. 818/735-0428. Read more articles by David visit Disclaimer The advice in this article is not as professional advice or advice for your specific set of circumstances. It is intended for general knowledge. It is recommended that, if you think you need individual assistance for you or your family, you are looking for the Council and the intervention of a license, professional help for your particular situation.

Regression In Potty Training

Regression In Potty Training The child does with his potty training. Then, suddenly, he started wetting his pants, mask making? His company? or the application of a layer or pull-up. What happened? Don t Get FrustratedEven to see the child in this important phase of development can be very frustrating, don t let it get to you. The child will feel your frustration, and even worse than it already is diapers.Instead consider this as a natural evolution, is in progress. Keep encouraging them to use the potty, and, above all, not ashamed of him wetting his pants on. Yell, call his name or to punish him for his injury will only aggravate the situation. Be the parent and the love it needs at this time because there is usually a good reason for his regression.Determine The cause regression I said, there is usually a good reason why the child is in decline, in its Potties training, although in the month of May not be obvious to you right now, or log May not the cause of the formation of the pot. Have you recently moved, changed or new Child Daycare? Even very young children can express what is the penalty if you take the time to find out. Spend a little 'more time with your child playing with the word or read stories together and see if there is some indication on what to her and her cause to abandon the idea of pot? now.Be EncouragingKeep to encourage the child to go potty. Maintain a positive attitude and don t force the issue, but keep in mind kids. I ask every few hours if she wants to go potty. Don t make a great deal of when things are going in his diaper, or clothes. Change and apply to use the potty next time. When you decide to use the potty again, be sure to provide many praise.Be PatientWith your support and encouragement, the child will be back in routine use the potty, and this small step back in the layers has been completed . Remember to relax, to avoid being frustrated, or at least not leave the child in his view, the frustration, if there is a cause and, above all, be patient and encouraging. Remember that your children are? The biggest cheerleader when it comes to mastering Potties Potties training.For more information on training, consultancy and training potty pot free eCourse to help you train your child visit Source:

Inappropriate behavior such as intractable when

Inappropriate behavior such as intractable when Two boys in the first grade classroom, according to argue on a field, he wanted to use both simultaneously. Your teacher of them in a friendly way and said:? Boy, sounds like you two have a problem. Both? S-talk it out. One of the boys told his version of history, his face still tense, but his voice lowered to a? Inside? Tie. The second boy belongs, and then, without asking, went up with a solution to the first boy readily accepted. ? Great job! The teacher beamed. ? See? We can talk about it? A lesson in perspective may be surprising results when KIDS behaved improperly. If we, as parents of unwanted approach with the idea that our task is to judge / jury / jailer, our first impulse is to punish them. But the penalty can not be? T teach children what to do. Not? T expand children? Problem-solving skills, teach them how to repair social mistakes or improve their social perception. Fortunately it is not punishment? T is the only tool available. We decide, DO NOT SEE THE behavior? Currently intractable. If the teacher of history, which is the fight against two boys, identified the opportunity to teach a better solution to social problems. Invitation for the boys? Or if instead? reminds them of their ability to problem-solving, without yelling or arguing. Have you seen that? I am talking about? might work, and were more likely to be? do not talk? next time. A teaching perspective, offers space for the penalty, in some cases, but the focus is to help children lea the skills they need to behave appropriately. If we as a leaing behavior inappropriate for the child, new opportunities. Here are ten options for the optimal use of A Moment intractable: 1 Redirect the child on the way to a more appropriate activity. 2nd Tell the child what they are? Re doing? Not? Ta good idea? o? isn? t sure. 3rd Enter a friendly reminder of the state, the child must be under. 4th Run the baby through the steps of excuses. 5th Ask the child to consider how others feel when they are in inappropriate behavior. 6. Helping your child is changing for each affected by the inappropriate behavior. Do? What can I do to help (name of person) you feel better now? 7th In case of conflict, prompt the children? Talk it out? Support as needed. 8th Insert a new rule, if the situation was not? T, in accordance with the rules of the child has already leaed. 9th Invite your child to think of a better way to ask what they want or need in the situation. 10th Teach your child the right words / behaviors to replace the inadequate. The rules of proper social behavior for a long time to lea and even more time to intealize, such as habits. Even adults are not? T is perfect! If our child? S error behavior as the possibility of offering advice, we? Once again our children the best chance to be kind, responsible and socially responsible. © Norma Schmidt, LLC (limited liability company)

Children and healthy food Impossible

Children and healthy food Impossible How do you teach children about healthy eating? Children lea best through food, the adults around them eat healthily - lots of fruit and vegetables, whole grains instead of refined grain products and low amounts of added sugars and added fats. Meals must not become a battlefield. Keep garbage out of the house, offer many possibilities, and not a matter of food and dislikes.It Jun 's better not make a big issue of "proper nutrition" with children, the concepts are complex and food should not issue or a focus of their lives. An example, and intealize without conscious effort. If you ask ( "Why can not I have? Johnny eats this?), Treat the same way as all the religious / ethical / ethnic position, which is distinguished by his friends": a "This is the way we are home "approach.Don 't fight, what happens outside of your house - your kids eat what is served at school, friends' houses, the mall, and everywhere. But if they are "re-grown on their own children and become aware of their health, they remember what the mother / father and said did.At all ages will find many opportunities to teach" close to nature " concepts, relating to food: where it comes from, how he prepared, visits to farms, gardens with your children, where they contribute to food, from scratch, and later, the kitchen "lessons." Keep it fun and companionship. The parents and teachers to use these opportunities for granted, but today is not so simple, many children - and adults - will never again have an apple or a tomato plant, and do not know how to cook water.If weight is a conce more physical activity. Great athletics with children can and should be encouraged to participate in sporting activities and strength training to do. With regard to dietary habits, the example of parents and other adults are more important than what they say. Becomes active as a family. Walking, bike or swim together. Do not feel children should have the amount of food we eat? gove alone "junk" food as possible. Kids will eat anything outside of the house, so that you can only influence what is available at home.The are not simple solutions to the alarming increase in childhood obesity, diabetes type II and the beginning of puberty, but you can start by the refined carbohydrates in your home, serve lots of fruit, vegetables, cereals, beans and other seeds, and the whole family in activities recreation.I you are advised to avoid foods that have partially hydrogenated oils As far as possible, all children will be eating somewhere, but where you can find brands that do not contain - cookies, crackers, cereal, peanut butter - I think it's worth it. There are no long-term studies, but the harmful effects of trans fats seem to raise. This is a good reason to go shopping in specialty chemicals, such as chains of grocery stores, Whole Foods, organic and natural food stores where it is generally a wider range of options that do not contain partially hydrogenated oils. Check the list of ingredients.Dr. Gabe Mirkin has been a radio talk show host for 25 years and the medical practice for over 40 years, has specialized for four specialties, including sports medicine. Read or listen to hundreds of health and his fitness newsletter reports on a weekly fitness, health and nutrition

Raise Awesome Kids The 4-Point Plan Gets Results

Raise Awesome Kids The 4-Point Plan Gets Results Your children truthful, kind and helpful? If this is the case, read no further. If not, please listen to Colby and his mother. All my friends cheat? announced 11-year-old Colby. What? cried his mother? ? Not? T wants to deceive you? Sometimes? Colby answered. ? But I never caught. It is not all right to cheat on, young man? scolded his mother. ? How many times have I said that fighting is wrong? What's wrong with you? Whether it's lie, steal, cheat, or other problem, do lectures on honesty, while the child is rolling his eyes? I remember the advice a father loved his daughter, so he had his two hours lessons. They not only rolled his eyes, but his finger to tap. He cry? Are you listening to me? Uh-huh? they? d answer.Parents, there is an easier way. Not? T, to two hours each. Consider the 4-point plan: sample Listen Estimate N. CriticizingInstead worrying, food, or to help with long speeches, the goal of understanding what and how the child thinks. By knowing what the child thinks, we are able to influence the way he or she thinks. This simple program will help you communicate more effectively.Let? S retu to Colby. Instead of lessons? PROBE Ask nonjudgmental questions. Get as much information as possible in order to understand how and what does the child. Help your child with questions like: How do you feel if a fraudster is best grades you? How honest do you think children feel about cheaters? As you lea your class, if all around? What advice would you give to cheaters? Depending on your child? S probing questions with responses own.LISTEN Listen with respect. Do not use your opinion. If you stop, your child may be switched off and say what you want to hear. So are you? Ll be stuck where you started, not knowing what or how your child really thinks.APPRECIATE Looking for an opinion from you that your child really commendable. Smile, agree, and let your child know what you like about him. I hope that your child will already have some old ideas about fraud, how? Okay to cheat, if not? T be caught. NO criticism Why not criticize and lecture? Because you must think about what the child says. You must be new ways to influence your child? S think of a more healthy. You must create a well-out planning for your child? S improvement.If further this 4-point plan to be with your child the three gifts of inestimable value that people want everything to be heard To understand AppreciatedThese gifts for your child bond with her and the influence of his character too.This 4-point plan is a powerful tool for the discussion of issues in film and on television. You can also use it to real life problems in school, neighborhood, in your family, and especially the stories with dilemmas. The next time you have something important to discuss don? T Lecture. The next time sample, listen, understand, and not criticism. Try it out. You? Ll like it. Why? Since this 4-point plan to achieve the desired results, a child with an awesome awesome character.Jean Tracy, MSS, invites you to sign in young hearts and minds grow. For your awesome kids with solid character, parents sign up for FREE Newsletter and its download their free bonding activities, tips and articles on educational rights reserved. Please observe the copyright. Post this author of a field, if you know about this product. Please advise when and where you can reprint this article.

Adoption LIFEBOOK Every child needs a

Adoption LIFEBOOK Every child needs a Information is gold when you have adopted. Each little piece is valuable, both? Your photo or a quote from orphanage staff. LIFEBOOK put together all the pieces of information in a way that helps the child understand the meaning, and finally feel good about his history.People often ask me: "What is a LIFEBOOK? I will answer? E? And the best gift you can give an adopted child. LIFEBOOK one is a record of an adopted child? S life that uses words, pictures, your child? S art, computer graphics, and souvenirs. Ma? S plus a history of life. This is a unique opportunity for parents to honor every minute of their child? S life. LIFEBOOK one is the adoption of a blanket of security. He is talking about the adoption of any conversation envy. Put your child? S life story on paper is a simple concept. Who would have thought that the benefits are endless? My daughter? LIFEBOOK S that we carry and increase their confidence in me? Mary McGuire, adoptive mother of seven years, Cassie, a ChinaYes adopted, the concept is simple. LIFEBOOK is easy to write? Perhaps - perhaps not.The replete with stories and pictures once the child of his family. (How many boxes of photos that are stored away?) But this? S, not the child? S top. Imagine a picture of someone who is cut to the knee. This is what it's like not to have or to discuss your history. Adoptive end with a floating or numb feeling, without roots, to join to.I should know. I spent my first five months in custody before being adopted. I listened carefully to the silences of adoption during my childhood.Some families are reluctant to consider a LIFEBOOK. ? We do not know - how can we write when we know nothing? There are now a number of creative ways to work with little or no information. Ironically, it becomes even more critical for children with little personal details of a LIFEBOOK. Simply because the child does not speak? E? Not? t mean that there is not? t think the other parts of his life. Often? And before that the photo-period, which adopted want to know more about.It? S as the feeling of a lack of factors that may affect the seizure or the concentration of adopted children. LIFEBOOK can fill the missing pieces with words, pictures and photographs, if possible. Words create images in which there is none .. My mother is a social worker who used LIFEBOOK hours in his work. LIFEBOOK like to have available 22 years ago? Perhaps we can have a lot of unanswered questions? Kate 22 years, from adults, Colombia adopted a new social worker.Adopted children often have secret thoughts about why they were adopted. Many people think that somehow they are responsible for the separation from their biological family. In six years, I decided that my birth parents died in a plane crash in Africa. I can t tell a soul. Then I changed the story. It has always been death. E? And the power of magic thinking.LifeBooks help reduce magical thinking and fantasy. They are free of an adopted son to pay greater attention to the school. Or to be more available to focus on ability and interest. Best to be a child playing soccer, or painting a picture that dream infinity? What happened. If your child comes from another country, you know that? S important to discuss this country? S and / or rules for adoptions. Often, the only explanation for a child is the reason why he was placed. LIFEBOOK is the ultimate training tool and can save hours of therapy later in life.Remind as your children are related to their adoptive family, while not looking like yourself. This May in the form of similar voice pattes, talents, food choices or interests. It took 45 years to know that I got my sense of 'dry humor from my adoptive father. (OK, so I was a little 'slow) Do not assume that your child does not want to be reminded often of these links. Repeating.In They relate to its history, show your child and celebrate their strength and survival .. Sara? S story? What better way to welcome him as the preparation and preservation of its history with a LIFEBOOK? Mimi Robins, adoptive grandmother of 4 years, Sara, ChinaHelp for your children to feel proud of their strengths and assets of their birth parents. As Corinne Raybu, LCSW, LMFT say? birth families in the laws? do not you? t choose between them, but they have to [accept] them. If you? T has all the information, then your child? The talent and perhaps ask if they have had their artistic talent from unknown father.The birth? Page biological parents? LIFEBOOK really help with those years, when a difficult adolescent identity issues begin to peak. The more your child knows, the more you hear? Real. Some might say? Our family is still very open and talk about adoption, why write? As a book that you and your child can take and hold, allowing the monitoring of adopted its history. A child can see where the desire for success, without having to ask. Becomes symbolic for the adoption discussion. LIFEBOOK my mother to read. Where? Where? LIFEBOOK S but, I want to show my friend?. The child is older, more of a family in need of tools to communicate on the adoption of start thinking issues.If LIFEBOOK which are very strong, I ask you where to start. Here are some suggestions of Mr. Vera Fahlberg, national adoption expert:? starting with the child? s birth? Always discuss the mother and father (even if they do not know anything that you say? know)? discuss the reason for separation from the biological family to include the birth certificate (if available). This official document that has always fascinated children of all ages. Court papers or official documents, is not enough if the birth is available.Once it laid the foundations of history with the birth, and then add the fun part, when they joined your family. Don t get caught in creating? Perfect? LIFEBOOK. LIFEBOOK become wo and to and more beautiful with age. The only real mistake you can do is never begin.The latest magic to create a treasure LIFEBOOK executes the work as a family, and give to your child. Although only five pages, is the tangible proof that your child is sufficiently valuable to deserve this treasure.By Beth O? Malley M.Ed. adopted, the adoptive mother and author of LIFEBOOK: Create a treasure of an adopted child of copyright 2005 Register for Classes LIFEBOOK (without charge)

The promotion of the child s development engine

The promotion of the child s development engine Assuming that there are serious problems with the engine, what you may, as an involved parent, do to help promote your child? S engine development? To help make it become a responsible, who has confidence in the engine and then take part in physical activity? The answer is: Plenty! The practice is one of the most important factors in achieving higher levels of skill performance. But one of the most important factors in practice is that I do not feel like practice! No? S is simple, really: All you have to do is play with your child. We have to play the competition, without any pressure, and the child should never say? Trying? Improve? him.Following are some other general tips to keep in mind: * Keep the sessions short. What? S better to have shorter, more frequent sessions to take your child with a couple that seem never ending .* Building on skills in a logical order (walk before you run, jump before you jump, etc..) Also remember that the conduct of competence in a stable environment before the execution of a movement for the environment. An example is the catch of a ball thrown against himself for catching a hit by a bat .* If? New equipment (for example, a bat and ball), make sure that? S-size child. Equipment for adults can stack the units in respect of a child .* Please be serious progression for the team, too. For example, if? Working in the catch, start with something simple and nonthreatening in order to maximize success as a gauze scarf. After work from there, perhaps with a balloon, followed by a small beach ball, and then more and more small (soft, easy to understand) .* They need to work on ball skills in its entirety before groped their smaller pieces. For example, a child needs to feel at ease with a vertical leap, as a whole before they can begin to focus on the tip of the ball-heel landing of arms and the role it can play in achieving a greater height Ensure. * that your child is dressed in clothing that allows maximum movement and the ability to spot .* Whenever possible, your ability to demonstrate that the child has the opportunity to see what it should look like. Children need to use all senses in the leaing process as possible.Children also need information, and practice their motor skills? and the most important thing you can remember is to keep neutral and encouraging. Often I think what we have to tell the children? I do wrong? so that they can solve the problem. But if you do not need to make corrections, maintain? Sandwich? approach in mind. First, congratulate the child something about it? S well done. Then suggests a way to eliminate the error. Finally, to end with something positive, though? S to repeat the first point.To be truly useful to a child, should be avoided? Moralizing? with our comments. ISN jump? No? Well? o? wrong. A jump is high or low, light or heavy. If we use the former descriptors? or the use of such general terms as "good job? ? good girl / boy? o? I like that going? ? that aren? actually does not say anything to the child. He has no idea what it was? Well? about what he did. But if what they describe? I saw (It landed very lightly on his jumps, with knees bent. This helps to keep your knees from injury.), Which provides not only the vocabulary of what? S do, offer useful well.Finally specific, providing information, make sure to give in small quantities. Children can generally absorb only a little 'of information at a time. Therefore, if your child is practicing his long jump, and you? Back to instruct? Swing and extend your arms and knees and hips and then take off your arms and bend your knees in preparation for the landing? him? ll most likely lose? if not all? information! Rae Pica is a child? s physical activity specialist and author of Active Child: How to Boost Physical, emotional, and cognitive development through age appropriate activities (McGraw-Hill, 2003). Rae is aimed at parents and education groups throughout North America. For your visit, and read more articles, go to

Music and his son s Development

Music and his son s Development As the mother of a period of two years, are always looking for activities that support leaing and development. I think that most of the activities we do together leaing purely by chance and luck? not for the skills or training they have. As of late, my son showed a real passion for music. He has also begun to distinguish between the styles of music he likes and dislikes? their preferences are Christians and contemporary country, of course, the two left behind every song by The Wiggles. But I digress. The point is, which is set for the music and feel the need to express themselves in many ways, when you hear that. For example, he leaed different dance moves the characters in their favorite TV programs, as well as the old mom and dad. Re-create the movement in their little dance routine when you listen to a song you like? also in the car. He is using your creativity and memory of speech, which I think is helping to develop his character. Also, try to sing? well, more like a hum? but again, this is another form of expression, and vocabulary is increasingly want to say the right words. Clapping to the music and tries his best to maintain a rhythm. All these are great ability to lea and use, in their own way. This is a step forward in the age at which children begin to imitate just graduated from a combination of what we know of ways to interact with the world around them. These activities are the promotion of many facets of development: physical (clapping, stomping, dance movements), social (a way to interact with those around him) cognitive (except what he tracks? S leaed of how to use the information to express their personality), emotional (a clear sense of pride attached to all forms of leaing in children). If your child enjoys music, can be encouraged by making available to their music without spending a fortune. I think we have toys that make music. A large number of books and music. As soon as you tu on the radio all day and find a station that is right for you so you can be a very rewarding experience. If your child is listening to music on television, radio, or directly from an instrument that is played, has many opportunities for leaing. Capturing the moments and most of them!

Journaling for Children

Joualing for Children My joual is a confidant, a tool for creativity and a way to find the clarity like no other. So, once my children were old enough to handle the chalk, I have to promote their magazines.>> How does joualing benefit a child? Children draw the same benefits to keep a personal diary as adults.At all age groups, there are some moments when life feels fuzzy, and we know that the time to abandon our newspaper and write up to make more make sense. Gain clarity in this way can help us do things and decide where we need to talk about what happens to someone? and what are our needs. In this way, the magazines as a unique way to self-esteem and allow children to observe life from a new perspective.Jouals offer a safe place for children, their creativity. Magazines also to preserve the memories for posterity. They offer the most authentic proof of a child? S, in particular, and the different stages of their life.>> How can I help my child begin joualing? Here are some ideas: - Primarily joualing should be fun for children. I think that the best success when Don? T provide specific instructions for exercises (why don? Fancy T want at home.) - Children should also be aware of their joual is completely private and confidential. A child must be sure that parents, brothers and friends do not look at the magazine, unless expressly invited to so.Ask your baby, if what he's in the magazine or with someone who wants to, but make sure that the Your child can not read? and the focus is not writing things right? but to express themselves and the flesh of their thoughts .- Let your children choose their own magazine? and perhaps a single pen. Encourage your child to personalize the magazine. Give them a magazine and cut the words and images that describe and create a collage on the front page that is unique to them.A No personal joual? T too expensive. In fact, I think? M less inhibited in my diary, if the book is a Plain Old notebook or composition book. If your child is suitable for taking pictures that to write a Sketchpad instead. Some children feel more comfortable with a few cards and special? The field covered? What are personalized and decorated .- emphasize that there is no right or wrong way to create a personal diary. This is food and rent, to put it but, as in your letter .- magazine with your child. I have the habit of writing in my diary every day. If so, the problem is? Find that, as your children, their newspapers, too. My daughter has the car in the magazine, so what? S available during their quiet inactivity all day.Susie Cortright is the creator of Momscape.com - a site for living with children to celebrate. Lea more about effective writing to the newspaper staff and spreadsheets, and our recommendation for joualing software. Visit Susie? And today the site and get a subscription to their magazine for free online: Source:

Parents create an emotionally healthy connection with your child

Parents create an emotionally healthy connection with your child ? Have helped me if I had known, I am your mother. Protect against all in this world. I never thought to protect against itself. This was a title in a local newspaper. His daughter had committed suicide the night before. The mother to be going crazy with grief when it was thought that her child, as he knew well. But sometimes we do not? T, and sometimes we caught the guard that we are a loving do.Creating emotional connection with the child begins when the mother is pregnant. The sweet child, pending the birth of the physical, emotional and mental to their mother. This connection is still a life. It 'a commitment that, after the jouey from parenting.Many parents have never been trained in? Education. I have my day in the field of education were my memories, like my parents, my sister and I. Sometimes those memories are good, sometimes not so good, so I said,?, Will I never do that to our child. The parents are in some way to know what to do and when to do it. This is not true for everyone? S travel parenting.Finding emotional connection with each child of one of the most important aspects of education. Creating a relationship based on love, security and conservation is of fundamental importance for the welfare of parents and their children. I believed that each of my six children have a grace period of a higher power. This idea made me roll my education very seriously. I wanted a relationship with each child, which will be filled with love and free of errors. I was a dilettante! I wish I could say that I have? T mistakes over the years, but it would be a great FIB. I have a couple of years ago some Indian tribes (To avoid errors), in my opinion, very strange that after their daughter or son was a baby, the baby was to increase the grandparents. The theory is that since the parents were so young, immature and not really? T know a lot about life, or the grandparents to take the child with his wisdom and experience of age. Young parents often visit with the child, but it was grandparents, the child in all its forms. When the child reaches puberty, he moved from his grandparents? Apartment to live with his parents. How beautiful is that we all love our children, we all want what is best for them, and we are all well-intentioned, such as our education days. That sometimes comes on the emotional reactions of love and respect for our greatest joy, as a parent. The emotional health of our children is vital for our long term relationship. Parents, in general, we want a happy, satisfying relationship with their children, but apparently not capable of this report because of the many challenges facing today? S world.The challenges are great and the pressures of mode life. Parents have a long and hard to be able to support their children with each passing day, another stress for a family to cope. Children are always short-change in the emotional department. Children who are emotionally positive for their parents develop a sense of confidence, a sense of self, and sense of security. Children who are not emotionally connected to the positive behavioral problems tend to feel and negative attitudes. They strive in their negative responses, and ignore them and against their parents, in many ways.How create these healthy emotional connection? A parents' support will know their strengths and weaknesses, likes and dislikes. If the parents are aware of this themselves, then they are capable of empathy with her child. The sensitive means that you are better able to help your child grow as independent, emotionally healthy, personalized attention. Your empathy and understanding of your child? S disappointment, pain and frustration every day help your child grow in maturity in which to grow in years.Self approach starts very early in life, and it is pleasant, on the basis of our parents. Children are dependents of their parents? Approval. If the parents aren? T, showing their approval and disapproval, the child sees himself as a failure. Creating an emotional connection is crucial for the child? No feeling of success in life. This link passes through each new task for your child search, and, of course, you pass through the school, where children believe that they are able or not, bright or less bright than other children.Every experience he brings with it a thought and a feeling. No matter what the experience we have the experience, and we are still something about them, even if it is with. In this spirit, please remember that the opening and many emotionally connected experience for you and your child. This deep connection to many hot surface of your child? The life and your child with a life of joy and pleasure, upon.Perhaps emotionally connected to these early experiences surface, finally, that if a child something harmful to his life? the memory of security and love can hear the negative acts of violation of self-destruction. Each time your time with your child? S hands, hug, kiss, love, read to your child, not at home with your child, praise, play with your child, it is time that you are providing a healthy emotional bond with the child.Love is the acquisition. Our lives and our mission depends on this love. Love and empathy should never be too obvious to see as understood and need no symptoms? because then it will be something different. It is the joy of life and life itself. We try not to have, or in silence. Follow your child? S lead. Your natural sensitivity and awareness leads to wanting to love and pray for one part of your life. Then lea to lives.Linda Milo value is known as the father-son connection bus. Linda is a single mother, six children, was a kindergarten teacher, a teacher in middle school and signed voluntarily for the year pregnant teens about pregnancy and care of their babies. Linda is a promotion offer guidance and counseling to overcome their educational challenges. Go to, and receive a free coaching consultation.

Parenting Your Teenager land there for life

Parenting Your Teenager land there for life "You're for life on earth!" I heard that once when I was 13. I will spare the details, or maybe put it in another article, because there are some points of parenting invovled.It 's so easy frustrated with our children. I think it is easier and even more frustrating when they are teenagers. A minute to look at young people who are becoming adults, and the next second act as the child that once were.At same time, as a parent you want to avoid saying anything, even in anger, that you can not run back up or follow through on.When you teach your child at least three things you do not want to teach: 1) It is not what it means say.2) must not be taken seriously.3) Insofar as is possible support your conference and temper Tantrum, can do almost everything want.Abnother problem groundingIn interests of a prisoner, there must be a jailer, and I doubt you want to play that role for the rest of your child life.ParentTip One - You can try this - ask your child what they think might be a fair result. I know this sounds nuts, but works.Oftentimes, come with something more than they ever were have.ParentTip Two - Make sure that the result is strong enough to attract your attention rather quickly after the crime for which the child can be connected because and effect, and short-term enough so the adolescent can have another chance to do well soon.Visit SecretsofGreatRelationships.com tips and tools for creating and growing a great relationship. You can also subscribe to our f * r * e * e 10 day-program on how to enrich your relationship today, from relationship coach and expert Jeff Herring.

How to Raise Children Organized

How to Raise Children Organized Teach children to be organized, but it's like shoveling? S snow. What? S frustrating sometimes and you feel like you? Do not get anywhere. The good news is that? S possible to raise the children organized, the bad news is that ISN? Ta deal.First has tued to realize that the organization is a process. What? S is very similar to help with their home, you need guidance and three crucial? P? S? ? Planning, patience and perseverance.Second you need for your model of effective organization. Set a positive example to fatten their lives. Find out what is meant by the organization. E? Sa look clean and tidy or a system that really works to stay on top of all this? S life? Personally, when? M organized, I think that things are more orderly and less stressful. I teach my children how you can organize your life and get the same sense of order and satisfaction.For me to lea more about how to organize things in order. This is creating a system that works and being prepared for all that is around the coer. E 'be able to do what I needed or wanted or when I needed to lea what he wanted it.Children live. If a patte of organized system then you discover that not only their houses and tables will be run more efficiently and with less stress, but you will teach your child a lesson in responsibility.Kids won? No less that the cure unless they are organized makes it personal and take it to their level. You must have meaning for them. They must see the benefits of putting things and the value of getting rid of things that do not mind need.Organizing is the first step to organize our lives. Clear that, without thinking? You can not re-create effective systems that really the test of time. We can mess with the best intentions, but without the right to communicate the thoughts right actions to retu to old habits. A clear focus, a positive attitude and a strong system of maintenance that are promoted and their children in a life that not only was is.Leaing, but actually how to manage effectively, cleaning and sorting is the key to an organized lifestyle. Promote these skills, trying to help around the house. Recruitment of their children? S help in selecting and putting away clean dishes socks provides a framework for classifying and organizing activities.Granted others, not everyone is bo organized, but not its child discount? S natural tendencies. Just because they approach things differently from what you do not take it ISN? Unorganized. It is likely that the sound of any system and natural systems of children in the developing world may not match yours. For example, the child may prefer to organize your closet in color that they prefer to organize by subject (for example, shirts with short sleeves at some point, long-sleeve shirts in another). One of the best ways to encourage their children in the organization is to hold family reunions on a regular basis. Use the meeting to discuss what? S working and what? S no. What? S is also the perfect opportunity to establish priorities and to discuss future plans and objectives. Touching base all 'beginning of the week may be all that? S needed to keep on top of all? The projects and commitments. Another benefit for the family reunion is that the children can see the whole world? S needs can be met with some 'organization and to give you take.Sherrie Masuria columnist is a lifestyle, organizing consultant and a member of Professional Organizers in Canada. It offers intelligent solutions for busy families - Copyright.

Muscle pain and children do not mix

Muscle pain and children do not mix I'm in pain. I have pain throughout the day. Last night I was in "searing pain", the pain multiplied by pain, divided by relief, then multiplied by pain to the tenth power. If they are not a math whiz, pain in height with 33 zeros behind it. Two days ago I was in pain (just regular pain, not zero). In fact, I had pain week.Welcome all my column.Actually 'humor, the pain is not really all that funny ... unless it happens to someone else. Oh, come on. Not all holy on me. Pain is the essence of the Bugs Bunny Show. And the three Stooges. And every sitcom that arise from personal Slights and insults. Without pain tickle the funny bones of the show today would not be bigger than George Bush for the collection of feminist literature.Of course, the pain is only fun when it happens to someone else. There is a lot like reality TV. If you are stranded on a desert island with a dozen other maniacs, to cook worms without emptying your stomach first, that he feels "fun"? Fortunately for the deep pockets to sponsor reality TV is not really real. Until someone, their gourmet meal slimies fallback means entertainment.Unfortunately for me, my muscle pain is real. E 'on my back. E 'in my side. It hurts when I bend, twist, or sudden movement by the FDA, the DEA, the IRS, the RCMP, the CIA Interpol.I or something stupid. No, not even a triple summersault on my snowboard in the Rocky Mountains. Unfortunately it was not so stupid. But I did pick up 37-pounds to tu Little Lady in her high chair. And I used a single arm, side, and with operations straps.I high chair was aware of the moment that God said: 'It is time we lea a lesson on the biology and physics and all the other topics so smugly weaseled your way out of the school. "Ouch.Parents children deserve immunity muscle pain. A child should be a "from the pain-free" card. They are directly on health, does not pass the hospital, unable to pay $ 200.Why special treatment for parents of young children? Because they are never completely the possibility of recuperate.Children demand 100 times more physical interaction than adults. And guess what? If you want them at their level ... which means more folders. Ouch.Children are unpredictable, which means you might suddenly Grab your leg with enough energy to fell an oak. Rarely is an oak tree in your living room, the leg falls with you attached. Or do you react to itself, which ... which means that the tuing point. I Ouch.Did remember that children want to play a lot? Running. Dance. Chasing. Throw. Rolling on the floor. Can I resist? Of course you can. "Take this, Dad." Oops, I forgot. Ouch.OK like playing something calm. Little Lady, I was sitting in his high chair (without twisting this time) and, in some games before their dough. "Please, please, please stop dropping pieces on the floor, where I reeeeeeeally slight curve to them." Ouch.A parent a child simply does not have the ability to heal. He feels violated ever and ever and ever over.So and if you notice my columns growing less funny and painful, do not laugh. It is my pain, and is the author real.About is AuthorThe David Leonhardt, The Happy Guy, editor of your daily dose of happiness to read more articles of personal growth in its auto-Resource Center, or visit his website at

COMPLIANCE Four Tips to teach your child respect

COMPLIANCE Four Tips to teach your child respect One of the most important things you can teach your child is respect. Teaching a child to be respectful so difficult as it might seem. The best way to teach respect to show respect. But first we have to understand what it means to show respect.Respect is an attitude. This is a response to others who may be verbal and nonverbal. Respect is the attitude of admiration or appreciation? to hold in esteem or visa? towards others and themselves? s possessions. Respect of a child is responsible for the material and responsibility, and a respectful child is bo with their peers, parents and figures of authority.Respect, unlike mathematics or grammar is an abstract concept. There are step by step in applying the model to teach a child respect. Just as the best way to teach a child how to love is to show the love, the best way to teach respect to show respect. Children model the behavior of the adults in their lives. Keep in mind the proverb? Ask others how you should do is another. When a child experiences respect, they know what it feels like and begin to understand what is important. Start early - start to teach their children as soon as we can begin to understand what they say. It 'always very difficult to demonstrate and teach respect for an adolescent who has not been concluded accountable.While your child is an environmentally friendly models of leaing, it is essential to change the inappropriate behavior. If your child does something that is not respectful, take the time to remember, in silence and do not threaten the media, that their behavior toward others or are not respectful. Every time you start a dialogue in a safe manner for themselves and exploit their strengths. Be sure to provide alteative methods in which the situation could have been better handled.Let? S have a maximum of four years, Chloe is on its way to the school aquarium. His mother is the parent chaperones for the trip. The trip was Chloe? S mother feel a little 'uncomfortable because of Chloe? S explosions in most situations. The fear that Chloe's mother has a Tantrum in front of their teachers and show how little control over Chloe. The jouey proceeds smoothly until Chloe discovers the gift shop. Eyes of a huge dolphin blue states that will have to come to sleep with you tonight. Chloe? S mother proceeded to explain to Chloe that the dolphin is very expensive and you will have to choose something less than expensive.At point Chloe starts calling his mother names like stupid and dumb. Chloe? S mother is often uncomfortable to deal with her daughter when she is showing disrespect for others. Not knowing what to do, and being caught between embarrassment in front of teachers and their feelings toward her daughter, Chloe takes her hand and leads to the response to Chloe lobby.The? S behavior is crucial in changing inappropriate behavior success. The scene can be played in two ways: the acceptance of inappropriate behavior: If the mother is not aware of the ways to deal with a disrespectful behavior, Chloe is more likely to speak in a harsh way threatens the freedom of future (If not leave now, they never go back on another trip) or dealing in an attempt to stop the accident (? If you stop calling me stupid, I'll buy dolphins?). Neither the response Chloe show the respect that he needs and situations that are similar in their lives. If the parent responds in a way that shows your child that their behavior is acceptable, the child will not change their behavior and continue the inappropriate behavior inappropriately.Modifying: If the mother is comfortable in front of her daughter and took care of this type behavior in the past with Chloe, has quietly lobby Chloe and sit in a safe space. It will examine the jouey and tell you what behaviors Chloe showed today that are exemplary, and then analyze the behaviors that were not acceptable. Chloe? S mother then discuss ways in which Chloe is able to manage their feelings in a positive way. The discussion ends with a sweet memory that compliance should be part of the way they treat each other and that Chloe will be able to have a new toy or treat for your next screen positive. No threats, do not offer? Only a honest debate on how the child behaved correctly and that the action is not appropriate.Respect requires: 1) First Introduction: Introduce the concept of respect early (when the child is able to understand when it comes to ) identify positive and negative pattes.2) Model: Show your children how to interact respectfully and respect your spouse others.3) Awareness: Talk with your child during the period that show that the less respectful. Showing at this time is more beneficial.4) are based on strong: in conversations with the child, primarily on the basis of the strengths that have demonstrated a positive role in which they participated, and how to improve undesirable behaviors.Always ask for help when unsure how proceed.Dr. Charles Sophy currently serves as medical director of Los Angeles County Department of Children and Family Services (DCFS), which is responsible for the health, safety and welfare of about 40,000 foster children. It also has a private psychiatry practice in Beverly Hills, Califoia, USA. Dr. Sophy has taught extensively and is Associate Clinical Professor of Psychiatry at the University of Califoia at Los Angeles Neuro-Psychiatric Institute. His lectures and teachings are classified among the best in the attendance.Dr. Charles Sophy, author of? Hold? In my couch? blog provides simple answers for solving life? s biggest problems. E 'specializes in improving the mental health of children. 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Parenting Your Adolescent What happens when parents think beyond

Parenting Your Adolescent What happens when parents think beyond Where did you get the crazy idea that parents should agree on every aspect of parenting? Just stop and think a moment. Two people from different backgrounds and homes, now is supposed to come together and participate in any agreement on something as complicated and complex parenting.I simply not buy it.In my experience working with families of more than 25 years , parents do not have time to think at all. However, we must do what I call thinking together.It 's quite easy to detect, when their parents were trapped in the thought of thinking apart.Signs Cree apartEach father that he or she has the right to treat children and spouse it's just another child with the parents openly disagree mix.The compared to active matrix kids.Each mine other.One a father and son regularly to keep secrets from others is clearly charged under parent.The home.Results away thinking cuneo is guided among parents, creating resentment and animosity.The the children know that parents ask for an affirmative answer to a question.The kids know how to play against each parent other.The children become more and more children to develop a strong manipulative.The "-me-what-if-I_want-i-want-it" syndrome.Visit ParentingYourTeenager.com tips and tools for thriving during the teen. You can also subscribe to our f * r * e * e 5 days and Program in Top 5 Things to Never Say to your teen, parents and coach expert Jeff Herring.

Meta pattern Genius just a game to increase the intelligence of children s

Meta patte Genius just a game to increase the intelligence of children s As a side effect on my life long study of human excellence, genius and creativity, I discovered a patte of thought that makes the difference: - understand the world - Problem-solving - Innovation and Creativity - The inner harmony. This filter is a goal that people lea, not bo "in this way, and it is a reality that makes the difference between a great thinker and someone who is not the end of the day. This filter is a person that orders for all types of information for the difference or similarity. Fascinating, in general, children's games are games of "difference". Spot the difference; Sesame Street "One of these things does not belong here ..."; and many, many other strategies in all sectors and all modes of this award" because of differences in classification. " The side effect of sorting is compartmentalise difference in the world ever smaller blocks of detail, which leads directly, and I mean directly, completely logical cause and effect fashion for the loss of the ability to "see the picture." In neuro-linguistic, the movement of a normal sized image and further details is called "fragmentation down." This happens when you try to stop the car, and instead focus on one wheel, and then the hub of a wheel, the screw and the center, then tu to a more details of the thing until you're in quark and neutrons territory and nobody knows or cares about every time we started with a red car. Now, there is nothing wrong in itself, with a background of fragmentation "in the details of a thing, where it becomes extremely dangerous to a person, and for many people in their collective society, when the whole world, as think - apart from some "visionaries" that is, of course, who will become leaders. Aha! In general, you should be able to see the bigger picture, should a king, a leader in the sector, every leader must have the magical ability to zoom out and ea large array of objects in perspective with the aim of discovering models that aim includes the whole situation. In educational systems throughout the world, children are raised and trained to become leaders. This explains why the "movement downchunk of details that are taught and encouraged at all times, people are only comfortable with" small pieces of thought "and shall immediately inform the further fragmentation in a time of crisis, because the movement is the only movement that they know and they know, make great soldiers, workers, clerics low - the great ants, in other words. But the fact is that "thinking in the opposite direction" to zoom out to see the bigger picture, like a simple game of a child - we only need to reverse it. Instead of playing endless versions of "What's the difference?" Instead start by asking: "What is it? 'It is the objective then revealed and the movement towards models" big picture "starts to occur naturally. This is a simple and yet such a thing INCREIBLE. Consider this. One might ask, "What's different for a black child and a white boy" and the answer is clear and ready - "I have children!" We can ask, "What 'is a boy and a girl? "and can receive the reply:" They are two human beings. "Everyone should be able to ZOOM in both directions - for details, and for any image, and vice versa. Everyone can do this - it is only a matter of promoting and neglected secret "scene" movement from an early age, and that in itself is as simple as a child, saying: "What is it about your teddy bear and its doll? "For every adult who really tries to reconnect to their creativity and power to establish the goal of our life and our environment, it's the same game. "What is it about the last five movies you've seen? What is it about the last 15 successful campaigns run by competitors? What about me and other people? "There is a new structural relationship is surprising that occurs naturally as a product to ask the simple question, that is profound and deeply healing. I believe that the answers are in the meta-models, and our ability to perceive clearly. If we, as individuals and societies, the meta-models of law, then, of course, the details take care of themselves - which is how it works. "They" say that the devil is in the details - which could be the way of salvation can be found in fact in all of us to start to pay much more attention to the "greatest."

S throughout the process

S throughout the process The northeast corridor has clobbered by heavy snow and ice this week, leaving many parts of New York City metropolitan area without electricity for several days. Our small country is no exception, most of Ridgefield is without electricity all day Wednesday. Widespread sympathy for the victims of Katrina and last year? S Asian tsunami bubbles immediately to the head of my thoughts. And everyone in our family together with some sadness that we rely on electricity and running water. N. water, no coffee, no phone, was not inteet.There my plans for the day. Enjoy a moing shower (after taking a hard workout) to hang my hat was like a star, as was work on my website (I? M in the middle of a project to remodel the Inteet), retued phone calls and capture in a laundry. Visions of escape to the nearest city to a shopping mall and a cinema was looking better and better experience, to review my schedule and realized he had some responsibility was to maintain, if in any way possible. Conference call (hmmm? It can be done by phone, I think, even if, at least my car idle to charge the battery of my phone and aren? No gas prices at an historic high?), Violin lessons (not There is no excuse as a school of music, in fact have the power), bill payment (which you can make a candle, if necessary). And, like it or not, the reds can be separated from white on the floor of the laundry, in the light of that grunt day.So out, children and spouse I. While in the Florida sun for a period of three days of withdrawal (which was fortunately out of town for most of our power outages), we did the best we can, in the absence of all imaginable and my knight shining armor.We were sailing along smoothly (who's quite surprising what a big hot cup of Joe can do for the spirits oppressed, even if one must drive through two lines of the city to do so), when just before becoming the main road that leads to the school of music, one of my truck tire was completely flat. Nothing. As long as the metal of the rim. It 's just a figure. Eie out of town. Perfect time to be a sweaty Stinky-bad-hair-hungry-cold-damsel in distress. It happens every time.Having just finished my lesson, I was mentally at least, still absorbed in his message? And throughout the process. The lesson applies to the professional writing and speaking, but now, with two tired and hungry children in the back seat of a house and I am totally unequal sides a city other than my own, I kept reminding me:? No? s on all processes Carolina. Take a deep breath and go through the process. How to become a writer or teacher of prestige, becoming a seasoned mother has to do with the process. As a writer has published a single article is not an expert, or a mother with a baby. It takes years and years of trial and error, mistakes and victories, denial and acceptance at the last? Do. No? Sa process.I quickly enough to mind my first experience of a flat tire. Although I can not remember as occurring on a day that also lost power (a little 'odd mix of facts), it is disturbing. Waiting for rescue strap-children-as-a-car-seats in tow, it was not possible to repair comfortably even ten years ago. And I was nothing less than a flat tire Bumbling neophyte (or stupid, depending on the talk.) No? I do not know the first thing about how to tackle the task at hand. Call AAA or call her husband? Leave the car or stay? Having someone to put on the spare car to the nearest tire shop? She began to laugh or cry? But after having lived a certain number of tires? And power outages, coffee and withdrawals from bad hair days?. Experience that the process much better this time (but not the power, not food, not a combination of coffee that was not particularly pleasant and fun). But I understand (sort of anyway) what to do. AAA call my cell phone (which I did in my car? S battery while driving thirty miles violin) allow children to walk three blocks to their classes (despite my fear of foul play in the path); phone hubby sympathy ( I told him my plan was wrong to perennial and should opt for Plan B), and take a cat nap while awaiting permanent (as opposed to any break in the routine of tears.) and after replacement is put on hold as a guide to nearest shopping mall-with-a-Sears-auto-shop-assistant of a new tire, dinner and shopping experience quickly took over five hours. Y? S that was not what it funner? S was in the past. I was still thirsty usual, there were still remnants of sweat clinging to my body without rain, and I am still suffering from a bad hair day. What? S right for me? I went further up the process. I? I have suffered most emergency situations. In the face of great challenges. He fought more battles.The process of motherhood is not immediate results. Quick fix. Flash-in-the-pan success. Motherhood requires embracing the challenges that come almost every day on our way. Acceptance of difficulty. And pain. Suffering. And more and more in the process. The act of going through the process has its own lesson. And even their rewards.Growing is not particularly easy. (See all the pre-pubescent child, if you need further proof.) This is introspection. Stroke. Falling flat on your face. But the process is inevitable, and won? Not being the kind of mother who wants to be unless you go through the process it.Embrace. While painful to endure the pains of growth. By holding the next few years after you think it should be fine, take your card through them. Nobody said it would be easy. Nobody told you to take this long. Ma? S some not easily measurable? Or easily accessible? results. What? S on the majority of all process.Carolina Feandez eaed an MBA and worked at IBM and a grant to Merrill Lynch, before retuing home to work as a wife and mother of four children. He has completely reinvented itself along the path. Strong convictions were bo about the role of arts in child development, ten years, the house and the collection of four kids provide fertile ground for the development of creative strategies for parents. These are reproduced in ROCKET MOM! 7 Strategies to Blast You into brilliance. It 'widely available online, in bookstores or through 888-476-2493. He writes for a wide range of parenting resources and teaches other moms via seminars, workshops, conferences and monthly meetings of the rocket MOM SOCIETY, a sisterhood group launched to "encourage, equip and train the mothers of excellence." Please visit

Stressed your child to teach them how to manage your time in school and leisure

Stressed your child to teach them how to manage your time in school and leisure I have heard from many parents when their child is stressed with school, tests, finals, finding time to study, and extracurricular activities.I know that I said in our previous Organewz I want to talk about filing systems, but I think I talk about helping children and preventing stress overload in our not too children.I see how children and adolescents. Stress has a dangerous toll on us, we must avoid on.Sit early with his son and to do these three things: 1. Choose a paper or electronic planner to record your appointments, tasks and challenges. I like the use of a planning document, in conjunction with some 'electronics to record all phone numbers, addresses and configure appointments.2. Talk about your child and outline the priorities. What are the priorities for your child? Student performance are typical of academics, family life, work after-school, friends, relax, religion, pets, etc.Have that their level of priority on the basis of the level of importance. Then track the time you are spending on things. For example, the amount of time spent at the school to reflect the number 3, that he gave his son? Designing a calendar with your child. Put the day of the week at the top and time of day on the left side. Draw squares for pieces of time that are currently occupied. Much time will be "school". Include places to travel to and from school, wake-up and clothing, snack time, and after school to get activities.Once edge, you can see how much time is left. With this visual really helps to see the best time to enroll in another class or spend time with friends.3. W.A.D.E. through tasks (Morgenste) Sort through the stacks of a devaluation dosWrite the task at hand. A trial, a card expiration date, a dance test. Get your planner.Add to estimate how long it will take. An essay by dance is a time can be quite a time 1 / 2, when you include travel time. Overestimate.Here 's an example, a final examination at 12 weeks need 200 pages of reading. If you read 20 pages a week for 2 hours, you can get done with 2 days of examination time.Decide when doing a house-map.Execute Hazlo time. Rewarded. Babysteps and start taking the project. Work in increments of 30 minutes. The interior silence perfectionist! My hope is that these tips and resources for time management recommended boys, stress can help your child and provide them the skills they need, when the workload hits! Rebekah Slatkin is a professional organizer with a Web site dedicated to get organized. Go to the rescue organization and read reviews of products and ezine.

Parenting issues curfew

Parenting issues curfew It is difficult to be a parent. Sometimes you just want to be a friend of your son. Want to be the mother of your children and all other children, it is fresh. Unfortunately, being good, responsible parents do not allow us to provide opportunities for friendship as you like. This applies to enforce a curfew as well.you 'll hear all kinds of excuses to explain why the curfew is still too early. Everyone is to stay later, all the funny things happen when I come to the other kids think I'm a child, because I have to be in such a short time, the list is long. No matter what we all think what you have to be firm in implementing a curfew. There are many reasons why this is True-You need to know when the baby will be retued. If your child does not have a curfew or whether you are a laxity in the application, you can not tell when your child to wait. If something happens to him, you can not know until hours later. If you have a curfew and your child is more than a couple of minutes late, you can start making calls, or find your child.-If you do not want your child to spend many hours without supervision. If your child is out with friends, without adult supervision, may be injured or cause problems. Limit the amount of time without supervision, is a good way to keep your child safe and trouble.-builds character. Compliance with a curfew to teach your child that punctuality is important. It teaches to be reliable and responsible where it is supposed to be the appointment of Sarah time.Written Cheney, owner of Happy   Candles, Chestnut Creek   Gifts & Gift Baskets   By Heather

Parenting Your Teenager Top 10 things never to think of your boy

Parenting Your Teenager Top 10 things never to think of your boy 1) It is not my (boat, beer, cigarettes, etc.), I am just to keep someone else.Yeah right. The next question is for parents to ask: "If you keep your friend for this, what is your friend to keep you?" One of the reasons why parents may deceive you here who want desperately to believe that it is not them and their not doing drugs. It 'important to remember that this is something your child can count on.2) When caught with drugs - This is the first time I tried it.Unlikely. Usually when children are caught with and / or use of some drugs, which had been un po 'di tempo. They have only grown, if caught, and are trying to find an easy way to it.3) We are not responsible classSometimes true. Or that they did in school. Many times it is a good excuse for not doing at home, or move to cover the class. In both cases, is one of the easiest to control when it comes to the teacher. What parents should do anyway.4) The teacher does not like meMaybe well. This is usually just a convenient excuse for poor quality or in trouble. In both cases, the child is the task of finding ways to get it to work, even if the teacher does not like. This is just practice for the real world where not everyone like you, sometimes the heads or colleagues. The interesting thing about adolescence is a solution to the problem. This is not something like - "Well, the teacher is not like me, so I'm gonna show flunking the class." Who is this evil? 5) Of course the parents partyThe in response to this question is: "If it is true, then certainly I am not the mind of the parents of a friend to see if there is anything I can do to help. "6) All other goes to, why can not I? Another popular designed to make parents feel guilty and obsolete, to allow us to believe that there is something wrong. My mother had a wonderful response to this confusion one: "If the whole world in his head on the street in three hours in their underwear, right?" Probably have.7) around the world smokes and drinks. No single person my age who do not. Many, many adolescents. But not any. I know of plenty and of not having a good time with what they do. Another to get parents to not tolerate the behavior like.8) If you let me out once, I promise not to do it again, parents want to believe either one. Unfortunately, what usually is here teenager leas that parents do not want to really say about the consequences. While in some respects, it might be easier to bring off the hook, very little is taught about the true world.9 and 10) Give me one good reason I can not do it! This is a two-seater, as is so common and so important. The crucial part for not believing in this case, is that they are actually asking a legitimate answer to the question. Having well-motivated adults, here is something you do not know your teen, "Well, thank you for explaining this so people to me! And now that you not only have no more to do, I am embarrassed and ashamed to ask. Please forgive me and good night. "If your child says that this time, call me quickly, something that is really ugly! Visit vanguard for more tips and tools for writing articles that brings prospects, publicity and profits. You can also subscribe to our monthly Article Writing and Marketing Newsletter. We also invite you to visit my Express-Start writing section for more information on the next article writing tele-seminar.

Helping children to Blossom

Helping children to Blossom I'm writing this from beautiful mountains of North Carolina west to south-east of the beautiful States.It here in April, with the trees covered with white or pink flowers Forsyth yellow masses of flowers and many flower colors wave in the gardens and along the roadsides.It takes my breath away.As I like the beauty around me, I believe that the experience of being a parent. Can I? T it.Here help messages are some of the Spring is whispering to me this year: 1st Leave everything to happen in your time. recalled how, in January, we were yeaing for spring to come. As for the naked trees, I could imagine the flowers of April and the silence of spring urged hurry.But not right.It? S as parenting. There is an inteal rhythm that develops a person can not be hurried. We? Blossoming.My not only took his nephew force its infancy. She is 13 months old.For recent months, was up and walking around fuiture. The adults in her life were encouraging them to take the UN with the support steps.She not ready.Some things can not be hurried.In, when our children run, which often slows. I am eager and sure of themselves, and disconnect from your inteal wisdom.Is something you want your child to do or that seems to take a long time? Are you impatient? This may be the time for you to allow the natural process take place in their knowledge time.Trust within his son. In the same direction that we all have within us is like our children well.Allow flower in its own way in their time.2. Every day, to appreciate the gifts brings.The magnificent beauty of spring is so fleeting.Last week, I was enjoying the delicate pink flowers of our weeping cherry tree branches bending gently to the stop I wanted earth.I time and remain in the beauty of everything, but I knew I could? t.So has had time to sit and watch the dance classes gently in the wind. As I soaked in the beauty as I could and I felt great gratitude on the part of the magic that moment.Now the flowers were replaced by small green leaves. The moment of glory is past. Quickly.Today I also have a choice. I can not lament the loss of flowers. Or I can appreciate the beauty that lies before me now. Flores has given way to the leaves, but the tree remains beautiful.When my children are teenagers, through our relationship is wonderful phases.Some sometimes like a tree in bloom. We believe that just clicks, and my heart full of love and gratitude.Other days, we had difficulty in working with problems or who seemed withdrawn. I felt very disconnected from them.It is easy to remember as they were before, and that left me with a feeling of loss.I had a choice. What I regret that at the time - and I was able to find a way to change my emotional state energy.I looking for things to appreciate. We worked all the time. I took the disappointment of how to prosper gratitude.In their children? Do not take the time to be with them and share those moments with them? What happens when the time is past? You can enjoy your children, even on normal days, when nothing special wave - or even when out of form and taking out of you? You can see past all this? Can you see the beauty that is before you today? Watch your children. Watch until you see something you appreciate.Take a few minutes to hear his gratitude for the gift you bring to your life now. No comparison with other children. N. yeaing for a time when things seemed better you.Just appreciate that the child is above today.3. Planting seeds and tending the garden: All around us, tulips and daffodils are emerging in a profusion of bright vibrant color.Some yards are like paintings. Other sites are like blank canvases. Blooming.What is nothing to say to me? If we want our children to prosper, we must lea the lesson of garden.Flowers not magically appear. Someone has planted the seeds or bulbs, and the sun and rain work together to benefit their plants hibeation.So is our winter children.What words you say to your children? How to act when you're with them? These are the seeds that plant.What is the emotional atmosphere at home? This is the way in which the seed, either increasing or whither.Is is hot and the emergence of life? It 'attractive and welcoming, so that their children feel not only safe, but encouraged to express themselves? If so, the flower before eyes.Pat and Larry Downing have many years of experience counseling adolescents and their parents, conducting family mediations and leading workshops and support groups. They are co-authors of the e-book, "Feel Good Parenting: How to use the strength of his heart to create a unique relationship with his son." To lea more about the construction of peace, harmony, cooperation and joyful , you can go to register for a free e course of an online magazine for parents.Copyright? 2005 Patricia DowningPERMISSION republication: This article is published in newsletters and on websites, provided you include all these data the authors, as it appears, including copyright and website information link.

Parental Control The V-chip

Parental Control The V-chip Probably the greatest invention of parental control over TV is that the V-Chip. In this article we will see how the chip was invented and came to be.The V-chip was invented by Professor Tim Collings. E 'patented in the United States Patent Number 5,828,204 and Canadian patent number 2,178,474. The first trial of this great invention was made in 1991. The technology was originally called for monitoring by Professor Collings. Finally, the name was shortened to what we now refer to as the V-Chip. Ironically, because the chip was originally designed to lock the figure shows that violence, people thought that the V in V-chip era of violence. This, of course, was not the case.It was not until 1993, however, that the chip does not have a real recognition. At that time the head of the Canadian Radio-television and Telecommunications, CRTC short, Keith Spicer, was so impressed Collings' invention that he met with executives of U.S. television to express his conce about the increasing violence on television . In particular, he raised Collings' V-chip technology from the U.S. and television executives were impressed. At this point the only thing that the U.S. television stations that have been made before the announcement appears in violence. But still nothing has been put in place to block the display of these shows. Despite the interest, however, has not yet done anything to use invention.Then in 1994, the news of the V-chip has spread to Europe. In June of that year he was invited to Europe to demonstrate their invention Collings. This was at a conference on violence on television, was held in Paris, France. A year later he was invited to Belgium to demonstrate their invention. This is when the U.S. Vice President Al Gore got his first look at the technology. Currently, however, the technology could block only one program at a time. In 1997, however, he was invited back to Belgium when the technology is now able to manage multiple information systems. At this meeting Collings contributed to discussions on the classification system of TV formats schemes.Finally coding and January 14 1997, Collings has exclusive rights to its V-Chip for Tri-Vision Electronics Inc. The announcement was been presented in a press conference in Toronto. It has been the subject of many major Canadian and U. S. TV networks to the next step was the V-chip on the market. Therefore, Tri-Vision Collings and teachers have worked together to conduct the first commercial products of V-Chip, which was a set-top box that has been able to manage multiple information systems and technology capable of operating existing , television. The decoder is shown to the public on the Convention on cable television in Canada in Edmonton, Alberta, in 1997. After the exhibition in the U.S. Cable Convention in Nashville, Tennessee year.The same V-chip technology has been in use by consumers since 1999. Only in North America, millions of games use the V-Chip to block unwanted TV   -------------------------------------------------- -----   Michael Russell   Your independent guide to the control of parents   -------------------------------------------------- -----

Do parents Challenge 9 in more ways than

Do parents Challenge 9 in more ways than Dealing with a defiant child can be exasperating! Children who hold easily enter into a power struggle and a mother to wear down. The key is to not go in the struggle for power with the opposition a child. Here are 9 options you can use to gain greater cooperation from its child.1. Use positive communication. Test your command of phrasing parenting in a positive than a negative. For example, if your child says? Can I watch TV now? rather than simply say No. Maybe? T.? it can be said? You can watch TV after dinner. O? I can show the film for you to watch after dinner. 2nd Give the child two choices. As a parent, you can choose both options are equally acceptable offer to you and your child. The child is less likely to object if they have some control over the situation. For example, you might say? Would you like to do the work before or after school, the school today? 3rd Reflect the feeling of retuing the child. Sometimes, showing compassion for the child, reflecting back? New feelings can be helpful. It can be said? You? Back angry because you can now? Not to complete the construction of the tower of Lego. What? S hard to stop a project before you? Finished, ISN? No? 4th Say what? Been seeing and what? Want to see. ? Wow! I want to say? No.? I love children, when I say, YES! YES! YES! You can tickle the baby or the use of 'humor to see if you can get to say yes! 5th Member of his command as a statement, not as a question. Parents often say? Want to make your house now? or other controls to be established in a study voice. Instead, simply say? No? S time to do at home now. 6. Make it fun to get to the next place. If your child has problems with transitions and becomes the opposition, have hops like a frog on the door, or your favorite CD in the car waiting to be heard to.7. Establish house rules. If the house is that it is going to bed at 8 pm, and then the rule. If your child says, just repeating the rule again and again, instead of entering a debate with child.8. Use rewards. Focus on your child? S positive rather than negative ones. Put a marble in a jar every time the child does something for the first time that you requested. Brainstorm with your child that the reward will be next? Having served a number of times.9. Think prevention, many children develop pattes of negativity. Specific trigger was a child. Look for what is causing your child? S challenge and try to change the patte so that the child may be successful.Toni Schutte, father of buses, MA, LP,   has 11 years of experience to help parents find solutions that work. For your e-course on how to win wars task? FREE monthly newsletter for parents to go

Protect children from drowning, Part 2 Choosing the Right Pool Alarm Swimming Pool Garden

Protect children from drowning, Part 2 Choosing the Right Pool Alarm Swimming Pool Garden Pool alarms are only one of many layers of protection that should be done around the garden, swimming pool, the possibility of childhood drowning accidents. There are many types of pool alarms on the market, but can be difficult to know which to choose. Taking into account the following information on pool alarms, you should be more willing to make the best choice for the safety of children in your life.An Evaluation of Pool AlarmsAn evaluation of swimming pool alarms, the U. S. Consumer Product Safety Commission (CPSC) in 2000 tested three different types of pool alarms: wave sensor surface, under the disturbance sensors, the sensor and a bracelet. Surface sensors float on the surface of the water. Subsurface disturbance sensors fixed to the side of the pool, and a part of the sensor is submerged below the surface of the water. The sensor bracelet is wo by the child and sounds an alarm when the device submerged.The CPSC study, the multiple tests of each device in the yard 6 swimming pools of various shapes and sizes. The objectives of the study were to determine whether the surface and subsurface wave sensors to alert when an item of evidence in the pool, and to determine whether the alert bracelet if the pool of water. " In addition, the study tested the false alarms caused by weather conditions like wind and rain, and those that are triggered by an object such as a beach-ball or football ball.According on the results of the CPSC study, the surface wave sensors do not work as reliable as the disruption of underground sensors when the test was in the pool. The study concludes that under the disturbance sensors "were more consistent and less alarming than the area of false memories." The wristband sensor sounded an alarm whenever it is under water in the pool, and whenever was the other sources, such as a tap or hose.Other pool AlarmsThe CPSC study is not testing the motion detector infrared alarms, which are a different type of place the alarm system. Motion detector infrared alarm device when a child, adult, or an object in the beam path to the pool. Some alarm systems a subsurface disturbance sensor in addition to the function of motion detection for increasing protection.Features to look into a pool AlarmWhile Pool alarms can be a lot more functions than those presented here, the following is a list of recommended features to try, when the decision a pool alarm for your garden pool:     Easy installation   Evidence of tampering   Includes a remote receiver with a range of up to 200 meters or more   Battery indicator and alarm to the receiver   Recommended for the size and shape of your pool   Capable of an object as small as a child of 1 year, approximately 18 pounds   A strong and different alarm should sound within 20 seconds every time a child simulator fell in the pool.   Test your pool AlarmOnce you choose, the pool alarm is the most suitable for your garden pool, conducting regular checks the effectiveness of waing so that your alarm continues to operate successfully over time. The user manual for each type of pool alarm should be instructions to take the tests.Pool alarms are not EnoughNo Pool Alarm Fail-safe no matter how many technologies and features are included, no matter what kind of information may be made by the manufacturer. Pool alarm should be one of the many levels of protection in the efforts to prevent children from drowning, with security barriers, door alarms and pool safety covers. The first and most important way to protect children from drowning accidents, but it is a close and constant supervision by a responsible adult. A combination of security measures is an essential prerequisite for creating a safe environment for all children in the yard of your life.Source:     Whitfield, Troy WUS Consumer Product Safety Commission. ? An assessment of pool alarms. May 2000.   Trey Collier is the owner of BackyardCity.com - North America's Finest Outdoor Casual Living Store, designed and created for the outdoor life mode space, deck, porch or patio you've always dreamed of. Since 2001, Outdoor Living BackyardCity.com Inteet customers quality products at very affordable prices. For more information on pool alarms, pumps, swimming pool covers and other supplies and equipment, please visit the BackyardCityPools.com.