Take my son is the worst of me

Take my son is the worst of me Remember those days before when children could honestly say that it could? I do not remember the last time we lost our mood? You are now once in a while 'time, do not recognize their behavior? Children have the possibility that the buttons do not? Even knowing that we had and we pushed to the point that later we regret our words and / or actions. Welcome to fatherhood. I remember once losing with my two children more than they go to bed and I wonder: who is this? I do not think that is something else in the world that brings so much joy at the same time, the anxiety. Beating you over the reaction to a certain behavior is neither fair nor productive by itself. We? All humans and say things from time to time regret. Children need to know that for all of us sometimes mistakes.There behavior of our children lead us into a weakness. If so, we can lea to recognize and understand what why we reacted like him. We are the questions that need to solve real, that have nothing to do with our children? There are parts of our nature which must be strengthened? We tolerate things that we can begin to drop? We forget what we need to express? Behaviors that cause our children an emotional response always offer the opportunity to know ourselves we better.Once? You said something to regret? S and it can be said? Do not go back. Even if we can make amends and take responsibility for our behavior. Children are very forgiving. The end of the day is a good time to change things that could have happened during the day do not feel well. ? I? 'm Sorry I yelled at today. Do not you deserve to be yelled at. O? I? I am pasting this afteoon. Not? I do not know what to think and it was wrong of me. O? I? I am not happy with the way they handled what happened today. I? Sorry. Both? S try to make tomorrow a better day. Letting children know that we made a mistake and are willing to do things differently to the models makes a mistake is not bad, what? And if you do not run our mistakes that problems.Some strategies for the control of rabies, walk before you say something you regret staying in this, rather than referring to what happened in the past, to avoid the threat of any type, and kept short and to the point. It can also be very useful just to pick up the phone and call a friend, when you think you? Lose control. Chances are they? I did the same thing and will be happy to offer an understanding ear. We? All Human.Barbara Desmarais Parenting and Life Coach Desmarais is a parenting coach and mother of two teenagers. It 'the author of "education of children, but not his voice." He worked with parents for over seventeen years.