Life Skills Coach and make your teen think through

Life Skills Coach and make your teen think through Adolescence is a test case for parents and teachers, but especially for young people. Children are constantly tested the decisions about life and they need a lot of guidance in a time of life when you least want to hear. But much of the time young people are incredibly smart about the issues that we fear that they will not be able to manage. The trick is to make them, while they retain that independence value.You so they can guide your kids' training to achieve their intelligent and rational answers they already know, and only to find themselves. Here nine questions, you can do to your children to develop the process of thinking with their lives. These issues in almost every situation, such as peer pressure, school performance and problems associated with choices.Pick difficult to make one or two. Not cluttered. An important issue sometimes opens the door for your teen to achieve that "Aha!" Moment and do the right thing for his life.Questions for your teen to consider: 1 You can give your full commitment to this plan? 2nd If you want to take this decision? 3rd What if the temptation to do something different, what you have planned? 4th What is, how to achieve this goal? 5th How can we forget that there is a better way to reflect on some things? [..., If you feel you are slipping.] 6 What happens when / if we do not? T follow? As there will be a correction? 7th What can you say if you begin to weaken your resolve, and you need a sense of trust? Final tip: Sometimes young people need a guardian or an adult, you see, are not their parents. One can not reduce the role of parent. What if your kids seem to think of others, even if you had the same thing? They work on the normal growth process of young people away. The behavior of adolescents can be very confusing. Remember that your teenager is to understand how to work with and without them as part of his life. If your child is not with a kind of mentor that is a good idea for you to know that the support of adults, but once you have confidence in the person who is to strengthen a part, a great gift for your teen.   If you decide that your teenager to find a mentor, here is the question of facilities: 8 Who is a person with whom you feel comfortable talking about things, if you have a soundboard? Parents do not expect comments, but welcomed. Get your feedback in the best results to see.Ellen Mossman-Glazer M.Ed. is a life skills and behavioral specialist Coach, specializing in Asperger Syndrome, High Functioning Autism, ADHD and leaing. During his 20 years of education in special classes and treatment settings, Ellen was the struggle that children and adults have when they feel they do not fit in. It 'now in private with persons in the United States and Canada, by phone, teleconference groups and e-mail, so that parents, educators, carers and their loved ones challenge to find their own specific measures and instruments. Ellen is the author of two on-line e-Zines, Emotion matters: tools and tips for working with emotions and social skills: The micro-measures. Subscribe for free and lea more about Ellen at   You can send a mini assessment which Ellen will reply to your first action step.