Some non-compliance with your children Tips for parents

Some non-compliance with your children Tips for parents Failure to comply is the word family therapist for your child not to obey, if you have him or her to do something. It is useful, because it is descriptive, and because it can also motivate us as parents to our children that not only do not comply compatible. Here is how to define the term "non-compliance in children: 1. The child starts to do what was asked, within a reasonable period of time (15 seconds), 2 The child does not keep what was asked until the job is finished, 3 The child has not previously been taught follow rules of conduct in a particular situation, like in church, school, business, or with friends; If your child does not conform to take action. You simply can not ignore the problem, hoping it goes away. Deal with the situation themselves, or to consider some professional help in difficult situations. Failure to comply should be treated with the following reasons: 1. It 'the most common complaint by parents who help in hospitals, 2nd It is situated on the negative interactions between family members and children, 3 from disruptive aggressive behavior is usually not occur at random. Are in "burst" and are usually associated with the child was asked to do something. Over the years, I have some conditions in children and their behavior. I wish that you as parents, with the hope that it helps in dealing with your child does not comply. They are: 1. Children are strange. I do not think that children are like adults, do not process information as adults do. Failure to see the world around them as adults do.2. Children are stupid. This is not original with me. King Solomon, which reflected his growing family (he had forgotten to 1000 women and many children) said some time ago. "stupidity is at the heart of a child," is his way of putting it. Simply said: "Children are not stupid things, are not wise." It is our job as parents to teach their wisdom.3. We often expect more from our child's behavior you expect from us. We want to apologize to other errors, but we expect our children to perfection. This must change.4. Children things on purpose. Sometimes the child intentionally misbehave. He is testing. He looked at her. Subscribe Now, unfortunately, or later.5. Child behavior is not random. See point 4 Here are two groups of parents do not forget to see your children: A child of problem occurs because the child is what the child knows them, and what the child wants from you. The child may be a positive affirmation, or to prevent the escape or what they do not want or need. So please allow enough time to spend with your child to let them know that you are on your side, and you want the best for him. There are some things that our children need to know to succeed in life, and one of these things is to know how to listen and respect their parents. Stay the course and in accordance with the teachings of wisdom for your child and respect. To lea more about caring for children visiting Cowan, Psy.D., is a family business, a therapist who has worked with ADHD children and their families since 1986. He is the director of clinical ADHD Information Library of the family of seven web sites, more than 350,000 including support for parents and teachers lea more about ADHD each year. Dr. Cowan also on the Medical Advisory Board of the Inteational VAXA Tampa, FL., Is Chairman of the Board of Directors for KAXL 88.3 FM in central Califoia, and is chairman of NewIdeas.net Incorporated.