Parenting your teenager what to do when the child feels excluded

Parenting your teenager what to do when the child feels excluded On a recent Saturday afteoon, I noticed a girl crying age alone. My first impulse was to go further and control. Conceed that my approach could be taken the wrong road, I smiled and went to his shop to meet my wife. I forgot about until it came to girls car.Same still crying.My wife went to see what was happening. It appears that the girl was upset because she was treated badly by some friends and felt left out. My wife said that she has lived as a child. Then she struck with her big question: 'It is better to get there? "E'? Well, yes and yes partWhen you are young no.The, it seems almost like life and death. How to reach the other side of the current crisis, we can get some perspective, and it feels less urgent and a little 'less painful. As you lea to deal effectively with these situations, you can always stay out better.But decidedly evil. This is because they have a sense of belonging is one of our greatest emotional needs. This is especially true when you are young. I noticed that children and parents have a role in the management of these painful situations.Tips for teensIf is intended to receive the left, there are some powerful things you can do. The most difficult thing is to ask what could be done, which requires the left to get out.Another strategy is to realize that the majority of cases, left out says a lot about them more than what for you. Find More friendships.Don not waste energy trying to fit into a team that thrives on excluding people. Becoming a research and include other people, create your group and reach to include belong.The other option would be contrary to what some of his friends want to, but become more popular, because at the end with more friends and because it has a strong character.Tips for parentsLater that night, the mother of the child called to thank Lauren her.Fortunately to speak with the mother understands the importance of this fight is his daughter. Many parents do not not.What may seem small things for us is the whole world for them. If you believe that the world of a teenager is often the case that you know, to go out with you and that you are seen, one can begin to understand the importance of this is a way struggle.This adolescents begin to lea to cope with their emotions , how to interact with others and how to respond to the disappointment. If these are situations that you are honoring as parents. Treating the situation seriously, he was honored to meet them.If your pain as you seem stupid, damaging the relationship and to ensure that virtually no one knows reach you.Let understand how it hurts and how important it is for them. Help them see that maybe not all on them, but the other person about the wrong choice. At the same time, help to identify pattes of behavior that could be setting them up to stay outside. Encourage them to seek others.You may be tempted to tell their stories of being like a child. That's fine, if you listen to them and their problems first.Taking seriously address the situation of both gives a solid base from which to operate, to heal, and to handle this situation in a way that makes you so stronger.Visit SecretsofGreatRelationships . com tips and tools for creating and growing a great relationship. You can also subscribe to our f * r * e * e 10 day-program on how to enrich your relationship today, from relationship coach and expert Jeff Herring.